There's this guy I find really hot. We're good friends but I feel more for him than that. How do I go about it? I don't want to appear a s**t or ruin our friendship. Do you think there's a chance he already knows I'm attracted to him? I haven't really done anything too obvious, except wanting to be around him a lot more.
2006-09-25 10:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by damselville 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could pick your nose and he will think .."oh my god she wants me!"
2006-09-25 10:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Casually ask him if he wants to go for a bowl of ice cream, or to the prom. Try not to be disappointed if you fail; it's not the end of the world.
Also heed the words of Jedi Master Yoda: "What you fear to lose, train yourself to release. Let go of fear, and loss cannot harm you."[1]
If you want to appear less desperate, date other guys as well. That way, he can be #1 in a long list, instead of a list wherein it is very easy to be #1 in.
Just a thought, but if you aren't already, try to be a challenge. Similar to the above paragraph, try NOT to be around him all the time (I remember what happened to me once); have a hobby or two; and (if you're old enough) have a job as well.
Finally, trust yourself. As long as you don't do anything stupid (you've seen several of those on here), you should do fine.
I wish you the best!
2006-09-25 17:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't rush stuff if you don't want hime to think you are a slut, just by being with him a lot is a good start start doing stuff that require to be together and maybe invite him or decide to go out a little more seriously, or the easiest way would be to tell him you love him
2006-09-25 17:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Snow surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and throw him little subtle hints like lean in and touch his arm when you laugh about something you or he says...believe me, he'll notice. You don't need to do anything that could seem "slutty" do get his attention; in fact, if he's a respectable person those things might even turn him off. Seem interested in spending time with him and let him know how much you enjoy seeing him, that's all you need to do.
2006-09-25 17:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Clare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think us guys are dumb when it comes to girls. We never know when a girl likes us or just wants to be friends. I say if you want to get him let him know straight up front how you feel cause us guys just don't get the female non-verbal language.
2006-09-25 17:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should make it more obvious to him though. It's not as easy as many girls think for a guy to realize a girl likes him
2006-09-25 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by iceclimbers1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like it, yes he can tell. Guys have a sense or something. It's really weird. In a cool sort of way. ;)
2006-09-25 17:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by Erriyberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I am going to tell you the truth about guys........... now that I have your attention, GUYS ARE STUPID, we are really. Odds are he doesnt know if you are being subttle he wont pick it up. Just show him that you like him, you will save yourself some time
2006-09-25 17:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. What do you have to lose? If he doesn't want to be with you, then you can move onto someone else. Good luck.
2006-09-25 17:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by ajy1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let this happen naturally.....IF it happens. The man usually prefers to make the first move!
2006-09-25 17:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋