I have been antisocial for sense I was eight years old, I am no 21 and it has been only recently that I've finally started to break out of my old life style.
I wasn't antisocial because I chose to be, that happend because of my families way of living. I grew up an Army brat, sense I was born (I appologize in advance for any misspellings) into it. As an unfortunate consequence, I moved around my whole life. So I grew up not trying to fit in with everyone because I was always rejected, singled out, no one regardless of how hard I tried would give me a chance.
It is so frustrating to have so many people judge us because we have not been social. That doesnt happen on its own, being alienated does not exactly help.
Then there are those of you who claim that its the antisocial ones who take advantage of people. No, thats just a way of pointing blame at someone other then the one(s) responsible.
I only ask that you don't judge us all harshly, try seeing the world through our eyes.
2006-09-25 10:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Steven B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't judge you, but I suggest that you get therapy. There are many functional people who have this background that are not anti-social. Being that way is a reaction to circumstances, and you need tools to help you cope differently.
2006-09-25 10:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea what its like to be dull, or "antisocial" as you put it.
ive always wondered what its like to walk into a party and have nothing to say, maybe people make fun of you because its so
wierd to be "antisocial" whats wrong with being social? people are not out to get you, stop being paranoid, and if you dont want to be made fun of, then dont post these questions on this thing.
people generally want to be nice to you and most people wouild
proboly be nice to you if you werent so wierd. you cant keep
using the excuse that you had to move around alot as a kid. i have friends that were "army brats" and they are more than friendly b/c they never wanted to be the new kid and they have
PLENTY of friends. whah, shake the sand out of your vagina and go talk to someone. I got picked on all the time in high school and i have plenty of friends. you wont schrivel up and die i swear. you know what? wierd anti social people end up alone and dont get good jobs because they arent bold enough to just go out and take
what they want. and whats this "seeing the world through our eyes" drama, what are you, some kind of minority? stop throwing yourself a pity party, hiding behind some bull sh!t "excuse" and live your life. noone else is going to live it for you or show you how to live your life. its not their responsibility. and if you want to
meet a girl/guy, noone likes an anti social person, its not
attractive. you dont even have an intersting avatar on this thing.
do you have a personality? maybe youre a nice person but noone will know because youre "antisocial" serial killers are antisocial.
are you a serial killer? i didnt think so.
2006-09-25 10:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry that you felt you never fitted in but I do try not to judge people period, I view people as I find them..................I was also a military child but totally enjoyed it on the whole, I know certain parts of it was NOT fun, moving every two years JUST before my birthday was one of the big downs sides to it BUT like everything life is what you make it......................
Also if you LET people make you a victim then that's all they will see of you and we both know you have SO much more to offer.
2006-09-25 10:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by candy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen. I feel your pain. I even get judged by my own sister. She always tells me I'm weird or psycho because I don't have friends and don't go out all the time. But I'd rather have no friends than claim to have tons like she does. She's not close to any of those people.
2006-09-25 10:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay....calm down. The first thing you need to do is gain self awareness back and build your self-esteem back up. Do not remain isolated..venture out and see people and gain your drive for Society back in the groove..
Don't look back at what has caused it, look into your future that you do something about it because in the real world...it's not the Anti-Social; Apathy that robs you...it's you your self.
2006-09-25 10:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, that's fine. You can ask to not be judged but I will tell you that being a more outgoing person will get you a lot further in life. You can't live in a shell...it's no fun there.
2006-09-25 10:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too am antisocial. Other people don't seem to understand that we don't want to be friends. That is a hard concept for them to grasp, because they want to be friends! The older you get, the more you realize it doesn't matter. Be yourself, don't let anyone tell you who to be. F*ck the world!
2006-09-25 10:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm somewhat intoverted also...but what reassures me that I love how I'm living is by witnessing others deal with distractions...I have only one focus now and thats getting ahead in life...COLLEGE! I could care less about parties and dating!
2006-09-25 10:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm anti-social because I choose to be.
2006-09-25 10:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋