i just now realized i love my bestfriend and i know he likes me , but now is too late to start a relationship coz im moving to rome ny . and i think i love him to the point that i might give him some !!! but now he has a gf and i am extremly jeleous , and i always thought he would always be mine if i wanted him but the fact that he now has a gf im sorta , wait no i am really jealous !!
i think im in love w/ him and he said he would break up w/ his gf for me but i dont want them to break up coz im movin in november !!! but i really do hate this chick hes goin o/w !!! should i cause them to break up ??? or should i get ova this jealousy and accept the fact that my best friend ive ever had is goin to be hurt sme day by the chick hes dating , coz she is litterally a SLUT !!!
2006-09-25 10:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are moving away . No more said..
2006-09-25 10:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him break up just yet. Go to NY and if the relationship continues to be as strong as it is now after a month or so then it probably has potential. Distance is a huge hurtle in a relationship so this is a good opportunity to test the strength of the relationship. Move, keep in touch, and just see what happens. If this girl that he's dating is really as terrible as you say she is then he would be an idiot to chose her over you...and you don't want to waste your time with idiots! :)
2006-09-25 10:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Far better for her to hurt him than for you too.You had your chance and didn't step up.He is looking for the happiness you didn't offer.Just because your jealous doesn't mean he can't be happy with her.If your serious about his happiness,love him and work the rest out later,if not,your moving out of his life,let him move on.The farewell piece is up to you.Sometimes they are memorable,other times it's a major disappointment and emotional disaster
2006-09-25 10:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are jealous, that is the reason why you want to break them up and the reason why you don't like the chick...
If you are moving, then you need to get over it and let him be... If he is not the right one for her, he needs to find out for himself....
2006-09-25 10:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up Missy, and No you don't love him, you think you do cause he has someone else, that is human nature, you must be real young cause of the things you are thinking of doing...he is a big boy..
2006-09-25 10:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him handle it. If he wanted to be with you, he would go ahead and break up with her for you. You wouldn't have to tell him to. Move in November and let him think about it, but it needs to be up to him.
2006-09-25 11:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and if u can give it 2 him just find out if his gf will not b there tell him how u feel and and if u can go 4 it
2006-09-25 10:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by reefert23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get with him because he has a new girl!!
Stay friends with him; because it's hard to go back to best friends after different emotions get tangled up!!
2006-09-25 10:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** it. Move on, he obviously has, either that or he trying to make you jealous and it worked ;P
Besides your moving so what does it matter unless you take him with you.
2006-09-25 10:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You'll find someone else who will be more suitable to you. Good luck.
2006-09-25 10:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks. Do what you think is right. Theres no turning back afterwards
2006-09-25 10:36:20 · answer #11 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋