Well I wanna break up with my bf, some of things he does just really makes me mad, I can't see myself, being with him in the future I think I messed up and didnt end when I was supposed to, because now its harder than I thought...he so immature sometime and hes not on the same level with me, sometimes he acts so close minded... im just tired and wanna explore my options, but its hard cuz I kno I still love him... sorta lol
2006-09-25 10:31:07 · 24 answers · asked by babiluv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be STRONG and walk away fast.
2006-09-25 10:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by happymixer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. Do what makes you happy! You probably "sorta" love him because you've been with him and haning around him and you know him and you get along with him, but if you've pretty much figured out you don't wanna settle with this one, then don't! Tell him that you don't really want a boyfriend right now in your life. In your own words of course. And don't ever do something you don't want to do, or NOT do something that you DO want to do, because you feel guilty. Don't compromise yourself for anyone!
2006-09-25 17:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way you do, when I went to college and had to break up with my highschool boyfriend...the breakup probably should have happened 2 years earlier. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do...it sucked and it was painful, and that night I drank a bottle of vodka, but eventually I got over it and found new guys! Unfortunately, you'll just have to suck it up and do it. No easy way about it.
2006-09-25 17:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think holding onto him when you just don't want him anymore is worse. That is tougher b/c eventually you'll still want to leave. Trust me, he'll end up finding someone else after you're gone. You should make the move, the sooner the better. Good luck.
2006-09-25 17:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, that is your Six sense talking to you, get rid of him babe, it isn't worth it being with a guy that makes you mad so just say NEXT....and be single for a while...till you are over it and ready to just have yourself back...to who you are, sometimes we can lose ourselves and get rid of the Negative...good luck...you sound like smart young lady.....
2006-09-25 17:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love... there are too many things against him. you are use to having him around like a habit... he is close minded.... immature... he keeps you angry.. he is not on the same level.. and you are TIRED. move on. there is never a right time... you just have to do it
2006-09-25 17:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that last sentence lets me know that you are not going to break up with him. When you get fed up with him and his ways you will take that step. But please becareful a lot of women are not here, because they had to tell the man they were leaving him and he would not let them go but in only one way.
Before you start spreading your wings it is best to let him go, because it is hard to keep things like that in the dark.
I wish you look with your situation.
2006-09-25 17:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Vickey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some deep breaths and tell him exactly what you just posted. It's never easy doing something like this, but its part of life. You live and learn. Good luck.
2006-09-25 17:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are and you sound young, you have a lot of options open to you. Explore them.
2006-09-25 17:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, why is it hard? if you're not happy with him, and you can't stand being with him, then let him go. yeah, there'll be some heartache involve, but that's what you can expect. move on with your life. no, need to prolong the suffering. just end it for both of your sake.
2006-09-25 17:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. Usually talking helps to get a better idea of where both of stand, and from there you can decide to end it or not.
2006-09-25 17:34:06 · answer #11 · answered by Ian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋