PLEASE! I have this girlfriand that I want to break up w/ but I need to let it down as calmly as possible (I'm on my sister's name). And I prefer to do it tomorrow, but the WORSE thing is, is that tomorrow is our 6th mnth of dating... WHAT DO I DO !?!?
2006-09-25 10:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by EMO cupcake 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus, I cant see her today (people that are saying "do it today!"). So far im liking that one girls answer, "You say "sweety...""
2006-09-25 10:39:05 · update #1
well i think because you feel so strongly there's no need leading someone and being with someone you don't want just tell her straight up I don't want to be with you anymore if she ask why tell her, be honest and don't seem week do it with strength
2006-09-25 10:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're screw'd! There's no easy way to do it.
Just be confident, upfront, and honest.
Don't make any fake reasons up. Just be honest about why you feel the relationship won't work for you. Best Case Scenario: You walk away with her respect.
Women know when we're lying.
Oh, just to give you the full story... never say it's because of another woman!
2006-09-25 17:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, IF your not happy being with her anymore just tell her. It's not going to be easy, but you need to do what is right for you. But when you do break up with her don't use the, "We can still be friends" That will only make her even more upset.
2006-09-25 17:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say "sweety, I just don't see us making seven months. I know this is hard to hear today, but I'm just not into it anymore. because
do it in person, be honest, be clear, be respectful.
2006-09-25 17:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is never an easy way to break up. You can only share your true feelings in the kindest and gentlest way you know how.
You've made up your mind and know what you want. You owe it to yourself to go with what your heart feels is right.
2006-09-25 17:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by danaluana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be an ****** and tell her you don't think it's gonna work out and that's it. no need to discuss it because you're moving on and she should do the same.
2006-09-25 17:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by loveholio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her today
2006-09-25 17:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it today- ASAP!!!!!!!!
2006-09-25 17:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋