Singles & Dating - 22 September 2006

she thinks of him as more of a friend but he thinks of her as a girlfriend...they only say hi to each other and they don't really go out....she wants to break up but HOW?!!!! dumping him would break his heart

2006-09-22 10:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not interested in a relationship but I do have to say that I think of here from time to time and wonder. She was my first real GF and we dated for 5.5 years beginning at 16. I heard she was getting married years ago and actually saw her at a bar from afar after having not seen her for say 6 years.

I guess in reality I have a spot in my heart for my first true love no matter what happened to end our relationship and I think knowing she is happily married with kids husband will help me to stop thinking of her.

2006-09-22 10:11:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest, how many of you did it on the first date?

2006-09-22 10:08:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things seem so normal between us. But then we are both single parents... and have a huge dose of reality. That zip zang 'wow' thing isn't really there. It is more of a more realistic beginning of a relationship. is this a good or bad thing?

2006-09-22 10:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After what still is and has been a messy break up, my friend said to me, attempting to put things in perspective I suppose, "You're only 20. The person you're with now is probably not going to be the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with"
I looked at her and said "Honestly I want to be married by like 25-26 because I want to have a baby by the time I'm 28. I still want to be young enough when my children are in high school to be able to go to their games, and be active in their lives. I don't want to be 50 when my kids are in high school."
She seemed suprised to say the least...it was like saying the ages put things kind of in perspective. She doesn't really think that far ahead.
Does marraige by 25 and having a baby by 28 seem reasonable or does it sound like wishful thinking?

2006-09-22 10:07:04 · 13 answers · asked by LostLover 1

2006-09-22 10:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by iluvblu09 2

Ok, so when a guy goes out on the dance floor, what is ok to do and whats not? I mean I know girls want the guys to dance but we obviously cant' be as extreme in our moves. So whats a good way to dance, to the point where you like youre actually having fun but at the same time you dont look extremly stupid?

2006-09-22 10:06:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-22 10:03:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and what do i do if he says no??

2006-09-22 10:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely 1

I love my man to death but he treats me as though he knows that I won't leave him if this treatment persists. I know Im a good girlfriend and I don't really want to breakup but I am on the brink with him! I tell him he needs too he just doesn't see the seriousness of my feelings on this situation. Any suggestions?

2006-09-22 10:00:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my boyfriend is cute but how do i sit next to him i mean get over fears of shyness hes already mad at me cause i wouldnt sit next to him what do i do

2006-09-22 10:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by cierraslove 2

2006-09-22 10:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by UnderstandingLife 3

He is my exboyfriend and he still likes me as a girlfriend. But I have another boyfriend. And now I have 2 boys that like me but I don't know why though.

2006-09-22 09:59:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

any guys want to mend my heart and have some fun

2006-09-22 09:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by hornygirl 1

I am 18 years old and in college and have a crush on this guy in my pschology class. I am really shy though only ever had one real bf. Also he is really well maintained and i am only just learning how to be. He is also a little older than me maybe 22 really good looking and buff. I am 5ft6 and 104 - 105 pounds maybe and flat chested only a 32A. My face is clear and i am told i am cute but i feel akward especially with my curly hair that tends to never stay in place. Today he saw me looking at him and i was so embarrassed turned beat red!

2006-09-22 09:57:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

is being overweight ..... mean your ugly ? ( im not fat ) just wondered your opinion !!!!

2006-09-22 09:57:43 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 13 year old grandson who is in the 7th grade is trying to deside if he should go to the school dance tonight. He doesn't have a date. Should he go any way or stay home?

2006-09-22 09:55:58 · 12 answers · asked by 4HIM- Christians love 7

All the sudden I'm having these strange attractions to women. By sudden, I mean in the last 2 weeks. It started with a few sex dreams, but now I can't get it out of my head. I even watched an adult film on cable and did something I always thought was disgusting and perverted afterwards.

I have everything I wanted in life, why am I risking all of it to indulge in sexual fantasy? But I just can't seem to help it and I'm scared I'm actually going to do something more than fantasize.

2006-09-22 09:55:29 · 55 answers · asked by Family Values Mom 1

At the Mall......in the store......laundry place....you name it. They're carrying their shoes...or takin em off?

Why?

WE dont' do that.

2006-09-22 09:55:11 · 19 answers · asked by Gray Rock 3

2006-09-22 09:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by prece88 1

im 16 n i got a school dance to go to tonight n ok heres the thing i havent jerked off in a few days so i dont kno if i should now b4 the dance or after what way will it b easier to get it up and also i dont wana bust while im dancing sry this a wird ? but i need to know thanks

2006-09-22 09:52:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This may sound really unusual to many of you. I was brought up very sheltered and very isolated from other people, I have lived in a military family, I grew up accepting that I was never going to stay in one place long enough to meet anyone or experience dating. Well sadly that has all be true, after a time, I pretty much gave up trying to date anyone cause it never seemed I'd get to know anyone. Sinse I started college I've experienced a few dates but it has all happend sinse I turned twenty and I'm twenty one now. I just feel so inexperienced that I'm just not sure what to do.
I now have what I guess you would call a girlfriend but she is so against me talking to other women, and it just seems that I am now finally starting to actually meet people and just now starting to make friends.
What should I do? Do I just settle down with someone who would be really my first girlfriend? I really just suck at this and really need someone elses, nonjudgemental and unbiased suggestion.

2006-09-22 09:51:36 · 8 answers · asked by Steven B 1

I've had a crush on this guy 4 evr, I got him now, but now i see that i don't want him anymore. the person i do want is his close friend what should i do

2006-09-22 09:51:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always touches me in my butt and slaps me. its really uncomfortable. should i dump him?

2006-09-22 09:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by hot_babe 1

This may sound really unusual to many of you. I was brought up very sheltered and very isolated from other people, I have lived in a military family, I grew up accepting that I was never going to stay in one place long enough to meet anyone or experience dating. Well sadly that has all be true, after a time, I pretty much gave up trying to date anyone cause it never seemed I'd get to know anyone. Sinse I started college I've experienced a few dates but it has all happend sinse I turned twenty and I'm twenty one now. I just feel so inexperienced that I'm just not sure what to do.
I now have what I guess you would call a girlfriend but she is so against me talking to other women, and it just seems that I am now finally starting to actually meet people and just now starting to make friends.
What should I do? Do I just settle down with someone who would be really my first girlfriend? I really just suck at this and really need someone elses, nonjudgemental and unbiased suggestion.

2006-09-22 09:51:08 · 3 answers · asked by Steven B 1

This may sound really unusual to many of you. I was brought up very sheltered and very isolated from other people, I have lived in a military family, I grew up accepting that I was never going to stay in one place long enough to meet anyone or experience dating. Well sadly that has all be true, after a time, I pretty much gave up trying to date anyone cause it never seemed I'd get to know anyone. Sinse I started college I've experienced a few dates but it has all happend sinse I turned twenty and I'm twenty one now. I just feel so inexperienced that I'm just not sure what to do.
I now have what I guess you would call a girlfriend but she is so against me talking to other women, and it just seems that I am now finally starting to actually meet people and just now starting to make friends.
What should I do? Do I just settle down with someone who would be really my first girlfriend? I really just suck at this and really need someone elses, nonjudgemental and unbiased suggestion.

2006-09-22 09:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by Steven B 1

This may sound really unusual to many of you. I was brought up very sheltered and very isolated from other people, I have lived in a military family, I grew up accepting that I was never going to stay in one place long enough to meet anyone or experience dating. Well sadly that has all be true, after a time, I pretty much gave up trying to date anyone cause it never seemed I'd get to know anyone. Sinse I started college I've experienced a few dates but it has all happend sinse I turned twenty and I'm twenty one now. I just feel so inexperienced that I'm just not sure what to do.
I now have what I guess you would call a girlfriend but she is so against me talking to other women, and it just seems that I am now finally starting to actually meet people and just now starting to make friends.
What should I do? Do I just settle down with someone who would be really my first girlfriend? I really just suck at this and really need someone elses, nonjudgemental and unbiased suggestion.

2006-09-22 09:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by Steven B 1

Or am I screwed?!?

2006-09-22 09:50:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy about a year ago lets just he lied to me and i ended the relationship.

now its a year after and he is calling me sending me message to my phone leaving voice message.

i hate him for what he did to me and i would naver take him back, but he is this disgusting guy and he wont stop calling me.
so please tell me how to get him to stop calling me.

How do i do it.

2006-09-22 09:49:19 · 5 answers · asked by WD 1

It is impossible to find a girl interested in me i swear. None will talk to me and if i try to say something I get quickly blown off then ignored. I even have a hard time getting a girl to loan me a piece of paper or pencil. I could probably go forever in the same room with a class and a girl wont even notice me or say a word without me talking. But then as i said i get blown off so **** it.

Do girls have some type of 6th sense or something where they can sense a "loser' a mile away. Or do i just have a big neon sign above my head that says "Warning:LOSER". WTF am i doing wrong???? My situation is impossible dammit!!!

2006-09-22 09:48:24 · 36 answers · asked by TT M 1