This may sound really unusual to many of you. I was brought up very sheltered and very isolated from other people, I have lived in a military family, I grew up accepting that I was never going to stay in one place long enough to meet anyone or experience dating. Well sadly that has all be true, after a time, I pretty much gave up trying to date anyone cause it never seemed I'd get to know anyone. Sinse I started college I've experienced a few dates but it has all happend sinse I turned twenty and I'm twenty one now. I just feel so inexperienced that I'm just not sure what to do.
I now have what I guess you would call a girlfriend but she is so against me talking to other women, and it just seems that I am now finally starting to actually meet people and just now starting to make friends.
What should I do? Do I just settle down with someone who would be really my first girlfriend? I really just suck at this and really need someone elses, nonjudgemental and unbiased suggestion.
2006-09-22 09:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by Steven B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh goodie, i was just in the same situation as you last summer.
i felt like it was time to get a bf...yet i was just coming out of my shell...heck, i was confused. but i went for the bf...wrong move.
since i was making a lot of friends, the relationship was not top priority and it felt suffocating. so it didnt last. and i am much happier now. mingling with friends.
2006-09-22 09:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to play the field a little.
And you've got a jealous gf.
Tell her you'd love to keep going out with her but just not exclusively right now. You may lose her - but there are lot's more out there!
Good Luck!
2006-09-22 09:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should get out and meet different ppl i mean u just cant settle with just one woman u should get out n mingle man
2006-09-22 09:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋