ok my boyfriend is cute but how do i sit next to him i mean get over fears of shyness hes already mad at me cause i wouldnt sit next to him what do i do
2006-09-22 10:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by cierraslove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to be SOOO shy i wouldn't ask someone who worked in, lets say, Walmart where something was located in the store.
after i got a job in the service industry where you have to serve customers EVERYDAY!! you get over your fear of talking to people!
2006-09-22 10:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never get over it unless you face it. Do it afraid, and soon you will find your not afraid. Your not really afraid of sitting beside him your afraid of what might happen if you do. He's mad at you for not what could be worse than that? If you can think of something worse than that you best rethink your relationship with this man/boy.
2006-09-22 17:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by spice_e6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit next to him. What's the big fuss? It's not like you're going to be put to jail for sitting next to him.
If you're somewhat afraid that your friend would tease and make fun of you. Just ignore the thought, and ignore 'em.
2006-09-22 17:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by septiant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. talk to him before he talks to you
2. ask him how his family is doin
3. be yourself
4. leave your hair straight down n' smooth/shiny like in the advertisements
5. try to remember what he said looks good on you. like he might have said that you look good in those high heels or those large ear rings
6. make up a lie, tell him that he has some dirt on his shoulder, rub it off
7. tell him that his hair looks good
8. don't talk about his friends too much, he may think that you have a crush on them as well, keep it to the minimum
9. don't tell anything to disappoint him, like don't tell him that his car is cheap, he'll get nervous
10. and finally, before you leave, give him a big hug, kiss him and tell him to take care of himself
good luck.....it's not hard as you think it is...
2006-09-22 17:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks u 2 sit next to him if u dont that is being rude woman. lol anyways dont be scared or shy
2006-09-22 17:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by Domino Teryaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be just live cause u only have on life gurl
2006-09-22 17:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
goo too more partys or meet new people and just have a conversation then that might help you being less shy
2006-09-22 17:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. he's your bf so, whats the problem. I was shy in elementary,but now that i'm a senior in junior high,i bust out.
2006-09-22 17:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try sitting next to him...
2006-09-22 17:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by clubhousemgr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant its just who u are
2006-09-22 17:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋