I've been on this site for a while now, asking people to help me with my girlfriend and our various problems. I've had a lot of answers that have seriously helped, and, after everything, I realise I've changed for my girlfriend but she's just never going to change for me... Not that I want her too, but she's so darn stubborn that she's never going to admit wrong and thus, she'll never change anything on her part to solve a problem or argument.
So, my question is... since I'm in love with her (and I surely am, there's no doubt about it), do I just accept the fact I'm the one to change or do I get out of this relationship? She's so amazing, so wonderful and so "perfect" to me that I really can't imagine being without her, and just thinking about being apart kills me inside.
She's not nasty or anything, it's just... she's not going to change, even though I've talked to her about every problem I've had - it always come back to me and "I" have to make an effort to change.
Ideas?
2006-09-22
13:30:35
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