With cause.My face tells the story when it comes to how I feel. He wanted to go drink a little longer. I did not. My ex was an alcholic. Flavored my attitude but I was not angry or upset....just tired. I also acted like a kid a couple of days ago...Didn't get my way so I pouted. Not normal for me. Recovered in about 10 minutes. He couldn't believe how terrible I was.(Didn't want to play Hearts) Says I put a damper on things. Upon listening to him, I agree. I've had my own way for 10 years..now widowed.... I agree I must change and will. I don't think he will give me the chance. Once he decides I think it's over. He hasn't called in two days. He went back to his old hang out to be with friends... We've been busy for the last month and he feels out of touch. I don't know if he blames me. But he shouldn't. I don't mind when he does what he wants to do, as long as he comes home to bed. We've been living together for the last 90 days. I miss him and want him back. Help!
2006-09-22 14:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by looking for help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay this is a serious situation you are in. It sounds like he's manipulating you to make it sound like it's your fault and therefore he can feel good about going out with his friends. I know because I had an ex g/f who used to pull that stunt. Quite honestly, we all act immature sometimes. You pouting because your mad so what! He sounds like the one who is immature and needs to grow up! If I were you I would box up all his stuff and leave it on the front porch and change the locks. Life is too short to deal with all the drama and the bs games. Let him go out with someone who wants to put up with it. You deserve better! It's not worth all the negative energy. It's hard but you can do it.
2006-09-22 14:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how old are you? Well i think you should have a heart to heart talk with him and blame it all on PMS...Im kidding..maybe you should sit down with him and talk about it and come up with a compromise. But if your bf really loved you, he wouldnt be bothered by all that. instead, he will try to look for ways to make you fell better about yourself.
2006-09-22 21:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print off what you wrote here and give it to him. You said it just fine with no input from anyone here.
2006-09-22 21:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him honestly and from the heart. if it's meant to be then ya'll will work it out.
2006-09-22 21:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋