Singles & Dating - 22 September 2006

ok long story short
ive been dating this guys off an on for over two years... my friend lets call her kim jus met him through me a month ago (she knows everything that me an him have been through) well i find out that they have been talking behind my back. i feel stupid because i will sit and talk to her about him an she is lying to my face an hidding things from me an he is doing the same thing i am pissed should i tell them i no or jus forget it because in the mean time he is sitting here telling me that he loves me? sorry so long lol n if u didnt get it

2006-09-22 13:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2

I will admit..yes sometime in the future i do want to get married and have a family and yes i do think about marriage it would be totaly unnatural of me to not. However i am so uninterested right now because i have things i want to do that i wouldn't be able to do so well if i was married. I also love being single.
There is a guy who is attracted to me but hasn't said anything yet (it's so obvious though) the only thing is...i'm not really attracted to him ( at least his outward appearence because i don't know him on the inside yet) at least not right now. I knew him a long time ago. I just couldn't see my self with him. He always looks at me for a longgg time, but i just really have given (thru my body language) the hint that i do not feel the same way.
I don't want him to say anything about liking me or ANYTHING right now because i'm not ready to deal with that.
Am i being wrong? Selfish? Too focused on my own desires and wants?

2006-09-22 13:17:03 · 12 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3

i swear whoever i like, they will ask her to the dance! she always is the one gettin asked by the best guy to a dance, and i am left goin stag! we are the like the same person, too. we are both quite, good ppl, and both decent looking.... i am so frusterated! why is this happening?

2006-09-22 13:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lexi 2

I mean is it as good as pretty but not gorgeous. Or is it not even as good as pretty?

2006-09-22 13:14:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been over a month!!!?
ok.. i have liked this guy and then he went off to college, and i havent seen him for over a month and i still like him! when will he finaly fade away? i dont want to like him anymore cuz i never see him, oh yeh.. we im 3-4 times a week... so when will i get over him?

2006-09-22 13:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by Lexi 2

I've gone out with this guy on and off since the ninth grade and now were seniors and im ready to settle down. Everytime we broke up it was because of something really dumb and one month later we find ourselves in the same situation. Were we flirt ALOT but never initate a relationship again. Now were in this situation and I want to get back in a relationship but hes so secretive about his feelings that im not quite sure if he wants to or not. What should i do? should I have one of my friends talk to him and see whats on his mind? HELP ME PLEASE!! i really like this guy hes my highschool sweetheart and i think im in love with him.......

2006-09-22 13:14:38 · 3 answers · asked by Nikki M 1

I mean, that is strange. Plus frightening. i can imagine myself going with a girl saying she's 20 and finding out she's 15. though i would guess she's younger but appearance can be decieving.

however to lie about your age so you can date, marry or have sex? That's just stupid, no offense. i think you need to be honest. i like honest people. otherwise i can't trust people if they're gonna keep lying about everything, especially their age.

2006-09-22 13:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by mystic_lonewolf22 5

broke up w/you and you knew it was over forever, would you ever call her again? After the night she left me several months ago I have not called her and she's not called me either. I do miss her but have too much pride to call someone who left me. What do you think? BTW it had nothing to do with cheating or anything like that...it turned into a distance thing towards the end. I'd like to know how she's doing but since she was the one that ended it I just can't call.

2006-09-22 13:14:15 · 13 answers · asked by jh361 5

There's this guy at school who's totally hott..... I really like him. How will I know if he likes me too? Will he talk to me? What will He do? Im thinking of putting some love letters or poems in his locker. Would that be a good thing to do?

2006-09-22 13:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by Keisha 1

what does it mean when it says happiness is merely imginary

2006-09-22 13:13:26 · 4 answers · asked by xfdsf s 1

well i love my boyfriend harrison and he is a really good boyfriend and i really like him but i like another guy named Ben so yeah i like both of them and all my friends and bens friend tanya says that he's braking up with his 8th grader girlfriend to ask me out and he knows i have a boyfriend! i don't know what to do and tanys says that when he found out that I liked him he jumped up and screamed yes what should i do i dont want to hurt ben or harrison!!!!!!! and i dont want to make a bad desicion either!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-22 13:13:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

NO WHO THE GORILLAZ R AND WERE CAN I SEE all THERE MUSIC VIDEOS

2006-09-22 13:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by Lola 1

ok theres this boy and he is really cute and funny and nice but hes a pervert, i mean hes into like grabbing all girls butts and so on. he just asked me out should i go out with him or no?

2006-09-22 13:12:04 · 17 answers · asked by scaredestgurlalive 1

I am not circumsized and I like to LD

2006-09-22 13:10:02 · 20 answers · asked by ConcernedParent 1

the last time we had sex was before christmas last year when i dyed my hair red.

should i go back to blonde or should i just pick up a blonde chick to get him going again and make all 3 of us have a good time?

2006-09-22 13:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by UWANTTHIS 1

Sorry if you alredy read this, but I wanted people to respond to my latest detail!
Ok. So here we go. I used to be really, really good friends with this guy. Then i got upset with him because he never talked to me without me talking to him first and half the time he wouldn't talk to me anyway. But we were still really, really close, if you know what I mean. So I got really upset with him, and I told him why, and he apologized, and it felt fake. So I told him to "perish" ... and I haven't talked to him since June. And I miss him like whoa... but I don't want to be the first to come back, because thats why I was so upset in the first place, you know? And I know he misses me too because he is always looking at me. What do I do? Please help!


Ooh. And By the way, i apologized to him over email and just said "im so sorry. I was being ridicuouls." But he never answered. So.

2006-09-22 13:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by xpixiexkissesx 2

I invited this really hot guy to my friends party, hows the best way to ...approach him and eventually recieve something in return?

2006-09-22 13:07:58 · 5 answers · asked by Poo for ALL 2

2006-09-22 13:06:08 · 15 answers · asked by GrimmyBear 4

or u just stopped loving them for no reason...who recently has been heartbroken? any stories to share...i feel like being in a crying mood today....idk why i just do.......

2006-09-22 13:05:58 · 12 answers · asked by summergirl10171 2

why if u already have a girlfriend want another girls company? cheating right?men. i have been w/ my bf for 5 yrs and i have warned not to do this, i feel like just breaking up with him for good. am i justified? do all men take numbers from girls at work that have girlfriends?

2006-09-22 13:04:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-22 13:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

And now I guess he's on strike or something and not talking or trying to be around with me, it's been three days now, If this goes on for a week, Do you think I should call it quits and breakup with him? Or should I give in to him and try to talk to him?

And just for the record we have been going together for almost 10 months.

2006-09-22 13:02:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm in a very rich place to meet tons of single women. Now the hard part, actually meeting them. What do women like to hear? How do I know if she likes me?

2006-09-22 12:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by unlucky4utwo 2

At first site your just not attracted to someone and you don't like their accent and yada yada but you don't really know what their like on the inside. You know...their personality and all. Do you just say i'm not interested or do you give it a chance and get to know them before you make a decision?

2006-09-22 12:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3

what do i do

2006-09-22 12:57:53 · 4 answers · asked by starfire12 1

he's stupid
he uses me
he smells
he cheats
he lies
he slept with 2 family members
he is 100lb overweight
he makes me get his beer
he gets me pregnant
he keeps the trailor untidy
he gambles
he drinks
he calls me *****
he lets me work 50 hrs a week
he lets our 5 kids run wild
he forgets my birthday and anniversary
but...............................
he's the best catch in our town...............

how do i get him to marry me?????

2006-09-22 12:57:12 · 16 answers · asked by UWANTTHIS 1

I want to be out in the dating world

2006-09-22 12:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by Kate 1

coz when I ask about the size of the universe and stuff I get jack sh-it so bring it on.

2006-09-22 12:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-22 12:54:16 · 22 answers · asked by Not Your Average Banana 1

I haven't had any luck with guys lately should I switch to girls?

2006-09-22 12:51:24 · 30 answers · asked by Marilyn M 3