ok long story short
ive been dating this guys off an on for over two years... my friend lets call her kim jus met him through me a month ago (she knows everything that me an him have been through) well i find out that they have been talking behind my back. i feel stupid because i will sit and talk to her about him an she is lying to my face an hidding things from me an he is doing the same thing i am pissed should i tell them i no or jus forget it because in the mean time he is sitting here telling me that he loves me? sorry so long lol n if u didnt get it
2006-09-22 13:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's absolutely dirty of both of them, to do that behind your back. Like I said before, on another post, it's not smart to tell your best friend or a friend certain things, that go on, between you and your boyfriend, they'll find a way to use it against you, so that they can benefit, from it. Let them both know, that you know their seeing each other, you don't necessarily have to curse them out, say what you feel and stay the hell away from both of them. He was telling you, that he loved you, just to get closer, to your friend. You deserve better, you will meet somebody that will be true to you. In the meantime, be more careful, when choosing your friends and boyfriends. With friends like that, you don't need enemie's. I'm so sorry, you were treated like that, just remember, "you reap what you sow", they'll get theirs in due time, because God doesn't like ugliness.
2006-09-22 13:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel it has happened to me. I would sit the both of them down and confront them at the same time. Get out of the the whole truth and why they went behind your back then decide if you still want to trust them to be a good friend and or a good boyfriend. I would be upset. I would want to know why they felt they had to go behind my back. I would want to know why my friend hasn't been a good true, honest friend to me and I would want to know why my boyfriend who says he loves me and cares alot about me didn't trust talking to me about what ever he was talking to my friend about. I would want to know why if he loves me as he says he does why I am not the one he confides in. Good luck dear I hope all works out for you and remember there is many fish in the sea, you just got to find the one that is right for you.
2006-09-22 13:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live twice!
Now, down to business!
How did you find out they were talking?
Is talking a crime?
If they only talk, maybe it is a good thing for you!
Do Not let jealousy rule your world!
Jealousy is the most STUPID emotion there is on this entire
planet!
Talk to both of them and find out if they are just talking or if
they are seeing each-other. If it is talk, then you should be o.k.
with it. If it is more, then you just cut your losses, find a
new B/F and a new friend.
2006-09-22 13:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit them down and confront both of them then I would dump both of them. You do not need a friend or boyfriend who goes behind your back. It does not sound on the up and up.
2006-09-22 13:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make themself look better some ppl jsut lie to lie bc their life is really boring and they want and think someone will like them more..or better if it was more of drama or interesting or just what ever ..they only do it for self gain and its wrong but that is how they feel they can get what they need
2006-09-22 13:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry ur head over it life goes on there are men all over the place go find a new one. you might want to reconsider ur friendship. Men come and go friends are supposed to be for life so how is she a friend
2006-09-22 13:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is good. I always love a good story in the afternoon. Are we going to find out in part two that your'e both vampires and that your brother isn't dead!
2016-03-27 03:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out
2006-09-22 13:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes peopel hide things because they are afraid of hurting the person they are hiding things from or they are afraid of what might happen if they tell the person
2006-09-22 13:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take that. People usually lie because they are scared. They are scared of how you will react. They want to have their cake and eat it too.
2006-09-22 13:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋