well i love my boyfriend harrison and he is a really good boyfriend and i really like him but i like another guy named Ben so yeah i like both of them and all my friends and bens friend tanya says that he's braking up with his 8th grader girlfriend to ask me out and he knows i have a boyfriend! i don't know what to do and tanys says that when he found out that I liked him he jumped up and screamed yes what should i do i dont want to hurt ben or harrison!!!!!!! and i dont want to make a bad desicion either!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 13:13:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stick with your boyfriend, harrison.
2006-09-22 13:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opionion is if harrison is a good person to you and you like being with him. If you are happy when you are with harrison then that is were you should be. I wouldn't break up a good thing just to see if something else might be better when it really could turn out to be a bad thing. Do you really want to take the chance in loosing harrison forever. Find a good man is not easy to do and if you do find one I say hang onto him for as long as you can love him as he loves you. Hope I was of some help and good luck to you. Really think about what you are doing and what you may be loosing before making a disicion dear friend, be smart about you choices.
2006-09-22 20:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth...guys suck. lol. My boyfriend and i just broke up today. It's been miserable. but yeah about your question...I have a good way of telling which one you'd rather be with. The next day you're at school, stare into Harrisons eyes. Keep a straight stare on him. If he smiles at you (like an "i love you" smile) or stares right back then he likes you. then try Ben. Which ever one has the best results, and looks at you the best, take him. That shows how deep there love is for you.
2006-09-22 20:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've already made a bad decision. dating a guy that you don't love. because if you really loved harrison, you wouldn't want another guy or like him as anything other than a friend. could you see yourself marrying harrison? if not, break up with him. and how well do you know ben? if you don't know him, don't say yes when he asks you out. say, "i'd like to get to know you better."
so what i'm saying is, i think you should dump the one your with and not date the other one either. if you're a friend to both long enough, maybe you'll figure out if you actually love one of them.
life's not a race. it's not, "she who gets the most boyfriends wins."
2006-09-22 20:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tricky little puzzle there!!!!!!!
erm.. well if u really like ur bf u wudnt get urges for sed ben.....
but seeing as u do.. dont break his heart more than u need to.. say it isnt working between you....
but dont imidiately agree to go with ben.. if he asks u out.. say you really like him but you have just gotten out of a relationship.. and u need a little time to adjust... you dont want to end up using him as a reboud.. then ask him to ask u agin in a week or so.
2006-09-22 20:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love ur boyfriend and u arent having any problem and hes a good boyfriend dont leave ur boyfrind for some guy u like ...love vs. lyke...love over rules
2006-09-22 20:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by amira1222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have 2 boyfriends, i know some girls that have 2 boyfriends. They just have to agree with this
2006-09-22 20:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why does dating have to be exclusive?
Date both of them - just make it clear to both that you like both or them and want to spend time with both of them and that it is not a contest.
2006-09-22 20:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your boyfriend and play da other one he can yo man too.
he is still gonna mess around with that other girl anyway.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 20:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by Sexyluva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run for ur life the monkeys r attacking!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 20:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋