broke up w/you and you knew it was over forever, would you ever call her again? After the night she left me several months ago I have not called her and she's not called me either. I do miss her but have too much pride to call someone who left me. What do you think? BTW it had nothing to do with cheating or anything like that...it turned into a distance thing towards the end. I'd like to know how she's doing but since she was the one that ended it I just can't call.
2006-09-22 13:14:15 · 13 answers · asked by jh361 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand what you're saying. I would be the same way about the whole pride thing. The fact is that you are broken up and not a couple anymore. If you guys talked to each other everday and depended on each other for everything, it would be good to call her and just make sure she is hanging in there. But your argument about weakness and pride is highly understandable. I personally would not, though.
2006-09-22 13:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by (R) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up on bad terms at all? If not I would say go for it. All you have to say is you were just wondering how she had been. Maybe think of some things you'd like to talk about with her so that you can start a conversation and not let it turn into an awkward silence. She might find it sweet that you were thinking about her, especially if it just turned into a distance thing. You could let her know that you would like to remain friends with her and be able to stay in touch. Maybe get her email and chat online sometimes. If you already have her email, that might be the easiest way to get started. Just email or call her to say "Hi, I was wondering how you were. I haven't talked to you in a while." You know, that kind of thing. Don't sweat it. The worst it could go is she would just be polite and try to get off as quickly as possible, and at least you know you would have tried and could move on.
2006-09-22 13:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call. Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean that you can't be friends. I dated a guy for three years and broke up with him. We talk/email every few months to see how each other has been doing. We have been broken up for three years now and still talk to this day. Out of mutual respect, we talk about everything except our dating lives. I bet she would be happy to hear from you.
2006-09-22 13:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ring her or txt her askin if she wanted to meet up for a drink just as friends, if she agrees do not say anything about ur pass relationship, if she doesnt like the idea get some friends to come down and get her to bring some aswel that way it would be less werid.
2006-09-22 13:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by BabyBlondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i think you should call her cause if u care for her like u say u do then call i know it might make u look like the despress person but sone times it take that call her it would be worth it!!!!!
2006-09-22 13:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by poohbearlovesamber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up the pride if u want her back its worth for a 2 year realationship
2006-09-22 13:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the kind of girl she is,- if you call her keep it casual and just let her know you were wondering how shes been.
2006-09-22 13:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by jilllyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone her just to say hello and see how responds, she might be thinking and feeling the same way as you.
2006-09-22 13:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by bluebell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would call her and still try to get back with her.
2006-09-22 13:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have to ask then you shouldn't call.
2006-09-22 13:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋