became distant. if so can some one please help me and let me know how you guys conguered the love.
cause it hard to be in this situation when you know and truelly feel that he is my one true love.
so how should i help him to realise that the love we shared/share is not something to just give up.
2006-09-22 14:02:19 · 6 answers · asked by tears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No such thing as a long-distance relationship. They don't work. Come see me, I'm local.
2006-09-22 14:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you dont get the feeling because its reality. I am curently in a long distance relation ship and yes we have gotten a lot more distant. It was our 4 months yesterday and he didnt even call!! I mean yeah its hard but you need to stick with it and when you think that somthing is going on then think it over before you jump to conclusions. And if you get to see him ever then when your with him make it memorable laugh a lot make him fall in love with you over and over again remind him about why he is with you!! And yes they figure it wont work so they stop trying and ive felt the same way but you need to remember that you are far away and that they havent nescissarily forgotten about you. Remember he is still with you which means somthing or he wouldnt be........
Email me if u want!! = )
I really hope it works out okay for you!!
2006-09-22 21:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had a couple of long distance relationships. one worked out well and another didn't. both have to want to be and work on the relationship. there has to be some trust. yes i have had an ex get distant on me. he had a lot of family problems and problems with his ex-wife. sometimes he took his problems out on me. that wasn't fair. later he told me that he didn't want a commitment. he was insecure. we shared some love and after we broke up we remained friends and then he just stopped communicating. that hurt. i just gave up and started looking for someone new. be careful. you aren't going to be able to change his feelings. he has to want to be in the relationship. don't push. also you may want to give some space for awhile. he may come around. if not, find a new man.
2006-09-22 21:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really tough to be in a long distance relationship...the one i was in just ended. Here is some advice...when he becomes distant it is because he has started to ponder the real questions of the relationship which are "how serious am i really with this girl? Could i move out there and give up everything to be with her? Does she love me enough to move to where i am?" I'm telling you now..the relationship that i was in that just ended wouldn't have ended if she didn't pressure me into moving out there so much! We loved eachother so much and if she would have told me that she was willing to move out and come live in my state i would have been on the next flight to live out there. It's a give and take...are you willing to go and live over in his area...does he love you enough to do the same? good luck and i hope it works out for you guys!
2006-09-22 21:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by i travel often 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course myou become distant, you are separated by hundreds of miles! Just hold on to the great memories you have, and think about the ones you want to make together!You really think he is your one love, then you need to wait for him.. NAd tell him you love him, that he is the one for you, and that you want to wait, it will make him feel special!
2006-09-22 21:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to each other everyday, email each other, do more so u remind each other that u still love each other and will never be temped
2006-09-22 21:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by chainz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋