I have been with my fiance for 3 years, and the other night he had a few drinks and came home and we were going at it for an hour or so and he didn't ejaculate. He told me not to worry about it that he was drinking and that he was tired. That it wasn't me, he had fun and it felt good and that he liked it and everything. This is the first time that it happened in 3 years. He isn't really a drinker or anything. But still, I can't help but feel that it is me. I am pregnant with our second child, I haven't gained much weight, but I still feel big. I don't know, 2 of my friends said it's normal, and 1 said that it is a problem. I just need some more opinions
2006-09-22 14:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by Qbanita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was quite honest with you in saying that he was tired and having a few drinks makes you even more tired. If it keeps happening then you might have some concern, but if this is the first time then I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-22 14:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confused and you've got a great deal to be worried about. You've been together three years with one bastard child and you've got another on the way? You call him your fiance, but you are not married, you two are just playing house! Do you realize how at risk you are and the lives of your children are by playing this selfish game? As far as his ejaculation problem, how about another women with whom he just ejaculated into and that's why he may be empty? You've already thought of that or you wouldn't have asked the question. Alcohol is not preventing him from making a life commitment to you or his babies is it? If it is, you both should get some counseling, but before too long - you should marry this man before he TAKES OFF WITH THE WOMAN WITH WHOM HE LEFT HIS EJACULATE! and you are left holding the bag!
2006-09-22 14:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't a problem. If he finished in about 3 seconds--now THAT would be a problem. It was probably the drinks--one or two will enhance, 3 or 4 or 12 will numb.
2006-09-22 14:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol for sure. Listen to your friends. They are telling you the truth. Listen hon, I dated a guy for a year, lots of sex, no ejaculating. No alcohol either. Thought for sure it was me. Nope, been with the next guy for 11 years, only happened once, WHEN HE DRANK. Trust me. It's NOT you.
2006-09-22 14:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by BIZ Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying !!! it is normal... He loves you enough to have 2 babies with you... If you are getting for an hour,,,, be happy... I get it for about 2 minutes and it has been 5 years and it ain't getting any better....
2006-09-22 14:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by bailey lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just that he was drinking a little bit and especially if he dosnt drink often it really affects it! Dont worry i doubt it was you! = )
Ohh and congratulations!! I love little babys!!
2006-09-22 14:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the alcohol.
But you have been together 3 years & are having your second child- not married yet??? What's up with that?!
2006-09-22 14:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by from HJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry!!! He probably had masturbated before you had sex, and wouldn't tell you!!
If this keeps going on...It may be medical!!
2006-09-22 14:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its most likely the alcohol .. u have nothing to worry about
2006-09-22 14:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by maherovus 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It was the alcohol. Don't sweat it.
2006-09-22 14:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋