Singles & Dating - 21 September 2006

for me its into the dirt by dark disco club, love the song but at the end it gets creepy

2006-09-21 17:22:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is AMAZING. Sometimes (alot) I feel like i don't deserve this or to be happy. I did alot of things in the past and from my last relationship with someone very controlling, i think i gave in so much and made myself believe i was a bad person when i'm not ..people make mistakes but i still feel like i don't deserve this or him. I had mixed feelings for him up until like the 3rd month and i even admitted to him, i wanted to cheat and see if that would prove anything but i didn't cheat. I don't know if i would have but i wouldn't now. I am falling so much more in love now and i think i had mixed feelings before because he is so different from anyone i have ever been with, i mean he is so nice and respectful. How do i get over this bad feeling? Please. It hurts. I can't even listen to love songs because i feel so bad like i don't deserve this. I even told him i am feeling this way and he keeps reminding me i am perfect no matter what we have been through but i feel different.

2006-09-21 17:21:12 · 5 answers · asked by Tia H 1

would you be scared to go out with a hot girl who dresses and looks like a vampire? would that be a turn off?

2006-09-21 17:20:46 · 21 answers · asked by marlen 1

i love him so much. we were so close. he moved about a year ago and now has a girlfriend. he visits me whenever he gets a chance and i always wanted him to be my first. should we? he tells me he still loves me. i want him to be my first and i dont know if i could do that when theres another girl involved. i dont feel right about it. he'll move really far in a couple months and i want to do this before he leaves. should i?

2006-09-21 17:19:24 · 18 answers · asked by sheldaan 2

I still find him to be very sexy and I miss the passion we had. I am also not at all ashamed of my sexuality. He seems to be. What happened? Was it just the thrill of the chase?

2006-09-21 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by newyorktilson 3

even tho I love him a whole lot

2006-09-21 17:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4

He started 2 tell my brotha everything bout me and then he found out that my brotha was tellin me....then he turned and started tellin my lil sista and i think he knew that she was tellin me everything.

*He told my sista that he loved me but then this one day he sent her a messege and said that he didnt like me no more,but real love dont disappear ova nite(thats why i think he knew she was tellin me everything).
*I just want 2 kno if he really does cuz im so confused and my brotha said that he thinks that the boy is tryin 2 confuss me....how can i tell that he likes me or not.

2006-09-21 17:14:46 · 4 answers · asked by detroit_lady313 1

Sistah's, When a man is "Ready for Love"...why can't he find his queen?? I know that brotha's have done you wrong...but have you really given up on us all together?? It is funny, I am actually proud that you have started making things happen in your life, but a small part of me always thought I would have a family like the Cosby's....Holla Back and let the Brotha's know what we are doing wrong??

2006-09-21 17:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by O Jam 3

I saw a guy for abt. 4 months was a great relationship. He was just a little shy of us, if you know what I mean. He was 24 and I am 20, we really did have fun together. But I guess he got tired of me because one day he just showed up at the place that I work with another girl! Well we have been split for 2 months and I have met someone else, the only prob. with this one is he is 35 years old. Other than that he is perfect. He is sweet and honest and just the nicest guy in the world. He is a little to affectionate though. But why do I always think of Danny, the first guy, when I'm with Scott. And what makes things worst Danny has started to call me again. what should I do about this just ignore danny and stick with scott. or dump scott and try to get danny back. I'm totally confused. Plz HELP ME WITH THIS!

2006-09-21 17:14:37 · 62 answers · asked by nana_14 2

2006-09-21 17:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by hislopjosh 1

Damn i like this girl but she has a 29 year old bf she is 21 im 21 the only reason she's with him is because he pays for her housing. Though independent i dont want her to move in. (not yet at least : ) We party together and one of these times im just going to make a move(the alcohol helps) What do you think should i wait it out or make a move?

2006-09-21 17:10:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok last summer i broke up with my boyfriend. and when school started, i got a class scheduled with him. i try my best to ignore he's there..and i hardly talk about him unless someone brings him up. but the thing is, during lunch he's always around where me and my friends hang out and i feel like he's always there...and i hate it.
and today this girl asked me why i had broken up with him and i went around the question as much as i could because first of all it was none of her business and second, it embarrased me to talk about it...so...then she told me that he had told her some stuff about "us"...she didn't really give detail about what he had said. but im completely tired of him being in my life even after i wanted to keep him completely away. i don't want him talking about me to anyone..and i don't want him saying things to people that was only supposed to be between us two.
what should i do?

2006-09-21 17:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have barely interacted with this girl. We flirted a bit a year ago, and then didn't talk. She friended me not so long ago. Then recently we ran into one another at a fairly formal party and I mentioned to her that I noticed we were taking some of the same classes.

I didn't give it much thought, but then I found out that she's going to be like my boss in this student organization I'm part of, and wondered what happened to her. Poof -- her profile is misisng. It's also weird because I think the assingment wasn't random (her being my superior).

This is the full extent that we've interacted and we're both normal people (i.e. I'm not some weird sketchy internet guy and she doesn't strike me as being weird either).

The only thing I can think of is that it was little awkward for me to notice that she was in some of my classes since they are kind of big (about 100 people).

What gives? How do I repair this, I don't like the thought that someone is weirded out by me.

2006-09-21 17:08:21 · 2 answers · asked by Who G 1

i understand that he could be busy. but he hasnt called me at all. and now im regreting having sex with him. because i believe thats all he wanted. we care a lot about each other. we have been knowing each other for 3 or 4 weeks now. but we just hooked up on the 9th of september. i dont know what to do. he say that he doesnt want a gurl thats about games and im not. im being faithful to him. i dont know what else to do.

2006-09-21 17:08:06 · 21 answers · asked by mzculpepper06 1

2006-09-21 17:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex gf and I broke up because of her drug addiction and self esteem issues. During our separation she would write me and tell me I was the best thing she ever had and knew she would never find someone like me again and she was missing me. Then after 4 months of separation she called me at 3 am and wanted to come to my house and talk. Well we did talk and she wanted me to give her another chance and that she wouldnt screw things up again. We have been back together now for 6 weeks, remember we broke up on good terms while still in love and thankfully there has been no signs of drugs in her life so far. I am working hard to be supportive in her dealing with her low self esteem as well. Here is my dilema. Since we have gotten back together we havent had sex. We used to all the time, alot. She has always liked alot of sex. What do you think could be going on this time with her and the sex thing?

2006-09-21 17:07:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

but I kinda want more. I am finding it very difficult to sepreate to the two emotions. I am not a babe (28), and she is a couple years younger(25). She is going through a transition and says she wants to spend time with me, but just as friends (this is not only confusiong but also very frustrating). Do I hang around, "living on a prayer", or move on?? I'm no spring chicken you know...my clock is ticking too!!

2006-09-21 17:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by O Jam 3

never been on a date
or been to a school dance
is straight but just shy
does he have a problem

2006-09-21 17:04:35 · 31 answers · asked by kid 1

ok well im goin out wit this boii and i donrt kno if he likes me for sure or not ok well he calls me baby and everything and grabbs me and holds me by my waist and i ssit on his lap but his aditude
changes some times like he calls me retarted and special but says that he's just playin and says that im sensitve , he calls me
and he always mess around wit eachother and he has a mysapce
and he wrote about me sayin that im the bombest chick he has ever hand and no one can get on my level ..and if guyz ever tryed to get wit me then its goin down and all that DOES HE LIKE ME AOLT? plezz i need ur smart peoples opinion im confused

2006-09-21 17:03:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is a socially acceptable number of partners for each sex to have in a year? Is it Different for men and women?

2006-09-21 17:02:37 · 25 answers · asked by Mr.E 2

i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kepton asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, and started asking me if i knew for the final would be graded. i mean hello!! do i look like the teacher?? I never gave my name to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
my friend says he's not shy at all.. so if he liked me.. wouldn't he have already asked me out?
so this year we have a class together, but it's been 4 weeks and he hasn't said anything. nonetheless, i find him staring at me all the time. and today he finally talked to me to see if i understood a concept. all i said was "no". i felt so awful afterwards!! do you think he'll talk to me again? what does it seem like he wants?

2006-09-21 17:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by Maria18 2

my boy friend is great but..theres this girl named kellie and i no hes flirting with her but he wont admit it! ive caught him in the act what do i do?!?! (im 13)

2006-09-21 17:01:01 · 16 answers · asked by Elise. 2

There is a guy in the 8th grade and I'm in the 7th and I like him. He always looks a me. Do u think he likes me?

2006-09-21 16:59:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

K there is a 20 year ole guy who likes me and i feel really sad when i dont get to talk to him and it drives me nuts does that mean that i am in love or just a crush??

2006-09-21 16:59:18 · 21 answers · asked by Jen 2

2006-09-21 16:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by newyorktocountry 2

stops by unexpectedly. I am not sleeping with him since he said he didn't want to committ, but how do i get myself out of this situation?? he lives right next door and knows when i am home...

2006-09-21 16:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by darlanota 2

"Has anyone ever called you peppermint patty? " do you think she has a crush on me?

2006-09-21 16:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl and I hit it off, it was going well. Yesterday she said she may not be ready for a relationship yet, because of her past. Seven months ago her boyfriend came back from the military, a couple weeks after that he killed himself. I spent hours talking with her about it and she seemed ok. I truely love this girl. We like the same things, morally we are the same, she looks great, and the only real big difference is I am 16 and she is 18. Shes in college and I am in early college. What do you think the problem is, or is her ex what is holding her back? I want to help her but I don't know what to do.

2006-09-21 16:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by The Question Man 2

Its understandable that any which way is going to be hurtful but what is the best way to go about it.

2006-09-21 16:57:31 · 9 answers · asked by newyorktocountry 2

2006-09-21 16:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous