ok last summer i broke up with my boyfriend. and when school started, i got a class scheduled with him. i try my best to ignore he's there..and i hardly talk about him unless someone brings him up. but the thing is, during lunch he's always around where me and my friends hang out and i feel like he's always there...and i hate it.
and today this girl asked me why i had broken up with him and i went around the question as much as i could because first of all it was none of her business and second, it embarrased me to talk about it...so...then she told me that he had told her some stuff about "us"...she didn't really give detail about what he had said. but im completely tired of him being in my life even after i wanted to keep him completely away. i don't want him talking about me to anyone..and i don't want him saying things to people that was only supposed to be between us two.
what should i do?
2006-09-21 17:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her to ask him about his small penis and big mouth but you'd rather reveal no more than that.
2006-09-21 17:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep ignoring him, and eventually it will all fade away. but not mean ignoring him, because that will just give him ammunition to talk trash about you, if thats what he's doing. and if someone else says he's said something about you, try this "you cant believe everything you hear". and good for you to NOT talk about him. youve learned young that gossip doesn't do anyone any good. remember the first rule: do unto others...
2006-09-21 17:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by lisa a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. You cannot control what comes out of his mouth. Let your girlfriend know that you do not want to talk about it and insist that she respects you. You may have to hang out in the Library until he realizes that you really aren't feeling him. It will die down, but not tomorrow.
2006-09-21 17:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by CAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can suggest is that you confront him and tell him that you don't appreciate him discussing what went on between you and him with other people.Remind him that the past is the past and that everything that is in the past should stay in the past.
2006-09-21 17:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to undersatnd that you broke up with him and it wouldve caught him off guard. and that made him confused and angry with you. talkiong bout you, is his way of getting back at you. also you two go to the same school, you just cant expect him to leave the school cos you two broke up. try to be mature bout the situation, move on. i think you need to talk to him. try to be friends, to avoid the awkwardness. goodluck
2006-09-21 17:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAMA!! Nothing you can do that's the bad part when you break up with someone. To bad he's too immature to honor your privacy.
2006-09-21 17:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school? transfer. that's life in high school honey. You are right to not want to talk about it. GIve it time, believe me.
2006-09-21 17:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell anyone that asks about his little penis and him busting a nut in 1 minute and how he sux at going down!!
2006-09-21 17:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep ignoring him and the things people tell you he says and does, they will quit it...don't show any reaction....if you are asked about him, just shrug your shoulders....don't answer....this is just school gossip and high school is famous for that...tell the people who are gossiping that you are too adult for that...
2006-09-21 17:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black him out mentally. Treat him as a stranger
2006-09-21 17:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Dr M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋