i understand that he could be busy. but he hasnt called me at all. and now im regreting having sex with him. because i believe thats all he wanted. we care a lot about each other. we have been knowing each other for 3 or 4 weeks now. but we just hooked up on the 9th of september. i dont know what to do. he say that he doesnt want a gurl thats about games and im not. im being faithful to him. i dont know what else to do.
2006-09-21 17:08:06 · 21 answers · asked by mzculpepper06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the phone is disconnected. and i forgot to get his new cell phone number.
2006-09-21 17:15:50 · update #1
Sorry to tell you this but you got played. The game is called "tag her and go."
2006-09-21 17:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only known each other for three or four weeks. Two weeks after you met, you're into sex with him. And now you don't hear from him?
Girl, where are your brains? Look at it from his point of view. Here's a gal he's just met who's eager to jump in the sack with him and doesn't require any committment from him. Whoopee! You're just handing him everything he wants on a plate. Now that he's had it, he's moving on to sample another plate.
There's no way you can be faithful to someone you know so little about. And there's nothing you can do about this 'relationship' but draw a line under it and start again.
Next time, wait till you know a guy a whole lot better before you leap into bed. The way you're behaving is a great way to wind up being a single mom. Wouldn't it be more fun to meet someone, get to know them, decide you have a future together, get engaged or married, and THEN have sex? And if it results in a pregnancy, you know your child will have two parents, two people to care for him, two people to guide him, and two people to stand behind him. Think about it. Isn't that something worth having?
2006-09-22 00:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. I hear you saying that you regret having sex with him and you are hurt because you haven't heard from him. There could be more to the picture that you aren't aware of such as a wife, another girlfriend or something. Maybe he's a jerk or just not realizing how you feel. If you are not happy discontinue second guessing yourself and go on with your life. Life is to short and there are many people out there to date and will make you feel good not so sad.
2006-09-22 00:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by phylobri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good is having regret. ask your self did you enjoy that time with him was it great sex that you will never forget? If yes what a great memories, if it wasn't why would you want him to call. don't sit around and wait for any man. Get back out there and live life. Learn from this.
2006-09-22 00:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by mysticstargoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and there is no way for anyone to tell if ones faithful to each other in a few weeks. What you do is no ones business but yours. I am sorry to hear that he used you. Just be more carefully on who you choose in the future.
2006-09-22 00:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by greg76991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's the one who's playing games, if he doesn't call for another 4 or 5 days, just forget it. Not to be rude, but having sex with a guy you just met, wasn't to smart.
2006-09-22 00:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY TO SAY BUT THAT ALL HE WANTED. AND TO
SAY THAT HE WANT SOMEONE THAT NOT IN TO GAMES.
THAT WHAT HE IS ABOUT IS GAMES. AND HONESTLY YOU
NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG. HE FULL OF IT. HE NOT A MAN
BECAUSE IF HE WAS HE WOULD HAVE BEEN HONEST WITH
YOU FROM THE START INSTEAD THESE CHILDLESS GAMES
HE TRYING TO PLAY. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. BUT NEXT
TIME GET TO KNOW SOMEONE A LITTLE LONGER. OTHER
WISE YOU WILL BE IN THIS SITUATION AGAIN. I HOPE THAT
YOU LEARN FROM THIS. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-22 00:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him once, ask a direct question
If he is still not interested in a serious way,
1- move on.
2- maintain a distant link, wait for another opportunate time.
2006-09-22 00:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up, but I hate to say 3-4 weeks and you really think he cares about you??? Chalk this up to a lesson learned you've been burned you're unlikely to hear from him again until he's real horny and wants to hit it again...sorry but he got what he wanted.......
2006-09-22 00:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that you can never trust what a guy says!! Have you tried calling him?? If you havn't or have no way to get ahold of him then just focus your thoughts on something else until you don't have to force yourself to do it!!
2006-09-22 00:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋