I still find him to be very sexy and I miss the passion we had. I am also not at all ashamed of my sexuality. He seems to be. What happened? Was it just the thrill of the chase?
2006-09-21 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by newyorktilson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When sex is new we do everything we can to keep it exciting. then real life trickles in and we often times let the real world interfere in our lives. We often forget what first attracted us in the first place. Try to act out some fantasies with each other, anyone who has been together for a long time can tell you sex does happen less often the longer you are together but, it can still be great. Why not sit down with your fiance and see what you can do to make it more exciting.
2006-09-21 17:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weekly? Wow, I've been married 10 years, weekly would be great! You guys are probably getting pretty comfortable with each other, and your fiance is probably more comfortable with the whole situation, to the point where he's finding other things more interesting than sex (although I couldn't imagine that....).
My advise: don't be ashamed of your sexuality. You might want to talk about this with him, and if he unwilling to try new things, perhaps you should think about your relationship, because, trust me, it never gets easier.
Good luck.
2006-09-22 00:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by chassocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girl i believe so because i have been with my fiance for 5 yrs and i rem how it used to be we was so into passinate sex and its not like that i think when they first tryin to get us in the sack and now they stuck with us so it isnt as thrilling but u need to bring some excitement into the relationship some movies, toys, lingerie, adult costumes u know what i mean excite it for him
2006-09-22 00:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dclp8204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like the steam have left the engine. Have you tried new things with him or are you doing the same routine? Try spicing things up with more romance like outfits, how you approach him etc.
and the good old talking about it.
Good luck
2006-09-22 00:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by geri11066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You became "familiar" is what happened. It happens when a couple gets sexually involved too early into the relationship. It could be that he is having second thoughts about your relationship.
2006-09-22 00:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's more to a relationship then just having sex. Maybe he feels that he needs you in other ways than just for his pleasure.
2006-09-22 00:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do whatever it takes to keep it exciting and fun, so ask him what he wants, and likes to do, then do it.....
2006-09-22 02:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married, then welcome to the married life. If not, then he has cold feet.
2006-09-22 00:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋