never been on a date
or been to a school dance
is straight but just shy
does he have a problem
2006-09-21 17:04:35 · 31 answers · asked by kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lets say u fell for him would this info turn u off or scare u away
2006-09-21 17:05:21 · update #1
also he commited to be a mormon when it comes to sex
2006-09-21 17:10:37 · update #2
Not at all. You could have been describing me. I had my first date when I was 25! I later married her and now have 3 children and am more in love today than when I first met her.
Don't sweat what society says and wait for that perfect someone. When it does come it will be wonderful.
2006-09-21 17:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by art m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this you, or someone you are interested in?
My daughter is talented, smart, funny, and very attractive in her own way. She is now a sophomore in college, 19 years old, and never really been on a real date. She is a little shy, but not too much. She is Mormon and will not have pre-marital sex.
I think right now guys are looking for party girls and fun girls.
Do I think she has a problem? Not at all.
In high school she told me when I told her she needed to go out on a date once in awhile, "And who would you suggest I go out with?" As I thought about it, I realized she had a good point. Not everyone is satisfied to go out with just anyone. She is waiting for the right person, and her time will come.
2006-09-22 04:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by ewema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hon. My grandson is your age and has never dated. He is the sweetest kid on earth, and one of the most sensible. He's straight and I'm sure he lusts after girls in his heart. But he wants to concentrate on getting his education so he will be able to get a good job and support a wife and family. I did say he was sensible, didn't I? At 18 you have your whole life ahead of you, and there's plenty of time for dating. You have no problem. When the right girl and the right time comes along, you'll know it. Until then, just enjoy being your own sweet self. Hugs!
2006-09-22 00:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no not necessarily. My friend didn't have a boyfriend or first kiss til she was 20... now she's 21 and getting married. There is nothing wrong with that. My cousin is 23 and has never had a girlfriend or anything like that either. and he's a great guy.
You just haven't met the right girl yet. It's okay!
2006-09-22 00:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. He just has to meet the right girl and feel comfortable enought to be himself around her. He should try and not be too shy or he will really never meet anybody. If a girl would know that, it may even be a positive, just because a real, respectable young women would'nt want to be with a guy who has been with all kinds of girls anyway. He just needs to be at the right place at the right time and he will eventually meet someone who he will enjoy.
2006-09-22 00:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by as9119 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't have a problem necessarily, he just needs to find someone he really likes and stop being shy and break the ice. otherwise yea he might come to a problem. HE WILL NEVER HAVE A GIRL THEN! look you cant remain shy, if you remain shy, you show weakness. you so do not know what your missing out on! dates are like a whole nother life! go for hun, if i was single id teach ya but instead im engaged and IM ONLY 16!
2006-09-22 00:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by EngagedWoman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is know prop with that he is just a "shy guy"
it wouldn't turn me off.and about the sex thing, in a relationship its not bout sex much at all....
this guy if he is ready for a relation and thinks he ain't going to get a girl well coming out of his comfort zone would be a good idea but still being his self it you know what i mean!
to get a girl you need to socialize ad interact with them dint change for a girls because they say so!
2006-09-22 01:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by ditsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think it would be a problem if he is a relatively normal useful functioning adult. It may not be much fun, but maybe he has other things to do. I didnt date, i was shy. I started late, but caught up, and now im living with a chick i met last year.
2006-09-22 00:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell that person until after you date her. No reason to tell her. Work on things you can talk to her about so you arent as shy. I was shy as well when I started dating now you cant shut me up. Go for it you have nothing to lose. I mean if you dont try its more of a loss for you.
2006-09-22 00:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you, nothing wrong with being shy. You are young. Things will start to happen soon. Try just talking to a girl first. Then another, and another. Pretty soon you will get the feel of it and be able to read a girl's signals.
2006-09-22 00:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋