stops by unexpectedly. I am not sleeping with him since he said he didn't want to committ, but how do i get myself out of this situation?? he lives right next door and knows when i am home...
2006-09-21 16:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by darlanota 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you really moving?? and is he just being neighborly??what does he come by for?? conversation, friendship, cup of sugar, or a dip in the lust pool. no relationship means boarders and barriers. just be honest and set his limits. it's your home, no matter what and if he still pops by, tell him you don't have time for his company, and come back whan he's invited. let him know you need to re-establish the kind of relationship the two of you have, and you need time without him around, and your privacy back. smile and let him know your out of sugar...for the time being.
2006-09-21 17:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by native girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a note on his door, and tell him that since he doesnt want a commitment and just because I live next door doesn't mean you can pop on over when ever you like. Tell him to move on cause you are and to leave you alone. Maybe stay friendly neighbors but not to cross the line. Tell him good luck! I would just go about doing your own thing as he is, its none of his business what you do or where you go. Just ignore him as much as possible, he'll get the hint. If this is what you want to do.. good luck :)
2006-09-22 00:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep the front door locked
do not answer any knocks on the door
and phone calls
any message from him
sooner or later he will get the hint
but it will be a long akward silence when you evetaully do come out and he sees you at a distance
but that you'll have to live with
2006-09-22 00:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dead bolt your door, if you keep opening up the door, he will keep on being "with you". Since you keep sleeping with him, he will keep seeing you. He is getting "freebies", so just do not open the door to him at all, put your deadbolt on it. Maybe after a while, he will "get the hint". Other than that, you keep on "giving out" to him, what do you expect???? You put yourself in that situation to begin with. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-22 00:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by gloria381948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either tell him straight up, or arrange for a guy to be at your house to pretend to be your bf. make sure he sees your pretend bf. when that happens a few times, he should get the idea.
last choice, don't answer the door, he'll get the idea.
you are not obliged to receive each and every person who knocks on your door.
2006-09-22 00:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by new yorkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about hurting his feeling he doesn't care about yours. Don't open the door for him. Tell him you are in too deep and you need some space.
2006-09-22 00:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a dead bolt or get a mean boyfrnd
2006-09-22 00:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Dr M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋