This girl and I hit it off, it was going well. Yesterday she said she may not be ready for a relationship yet, because of her past. Seven months ago her boyfriend came back from the military, a couple weeks after that he killed himself. I spent hours talking with her about it and she seemed ok. I truely love this girl. We like the same things, morally we are the same, she looks great, and the only real big difference is I am 16 and she is 18. Shes in college and I am in early college. What do you think the problem is, or is her ex what is holding her back? I want to help her but I don't know what to do.
2006-09-21 16:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seven month is still pretty fresh in her memeory dont be stupid she isnt completely over it yet girls hide emotions pretty well and not only that but ur realtionship would be illegal... duh. p.s. she probly thinks its partly her fault he klled himself.. p.s. just be her friend for now when ur 18 u can ask her out all u want
2006-09-21 17:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I answered a question like this a few days back. It was when I found you were still young you two If so I was out on Thurs & may-be to the spot we Associated To-gether Friday. Her Ex is somewhat still there but has either a mental problem or so as she told a friend there and I think she too had some trouble there too with him so I am at shambells!
2006-09-22 00:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty serious. Just talk to her. She had been through enough. If you truly care for her you will forget about being with her and just comfort her and care to her needs. If something happens after that then great but don't worry about that now.
2006-09-22 00:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know why any 18 year old girl would be interested in a guy younger than her. she just sees u as a friend. her ex is not holding her back, she is not interested in u
2006-09-22 00:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple of steps back..this is not the time to crowd her..she has to reflect on what happehed to her x.she probable is still in shock..if you care for her feelings let her mourn..
2006-09-22 00:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time heal her pain.
2006-09-22 00:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you suck
2006-09-22 00:00:11 · answer #7 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋