K there is a 20 year ole guy who likes me and i feel really sad when i dont get to talk to him and it drives me nuts does that mean that i am in love or just a crush??
2006-09-21 16:59:18 · 21 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you love to be flattered. . .
2006-09-21 17:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid take it easy, most guys and I am a Man so I have a clue. Are more worried about your parts as apposed to the sum of your parts 'all of You'. I am taking it for granted that he is your primary confidant, and this more than anything else would be most likely to cause the feelings you feel when you are not having that "intimacy".
I do not know your age but probably a bit younger. I'll tell you the same thing I told a Friend of mine years ago. Wait until you are at least 21-24 to decide if you are truly in love with whomever you are with at the time, so long as you have been with them for at least a year, this helps you hopefully see the side they don't show most others, as most people show everyone else only what they want then to see, this way they are seen in a better light than the reality of the situation. And if you are in love It wont kill you two to wait, Love is forever or until something bad kills it, Lust has little patience it wants now, and will hold out for a while but truly wait ahhhhhhhh.
2006-09-21 17:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by JAW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a CRUSH..
nothing else but a simple crush...
If you are over the age of 18, continue talking to the guy..
if you are under the age of 18, stay away and find yourself a crush at school, it is the safe bet and you will find yourself happy and not feeling lonley...
2006-09-21 17:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen, sweetie, noooooooo. Listen he likes you cause' you're fresh meat; young, tender,and naive. You feel lonely because he makes you feel like you're special,but it is a game darlin'. You can't go where he goes or do the things he does. He can only want you for one thing and just from what you wrote I can tell your little heart can't take it. You need to find some extracurricular activities to get involved with(cheeleading,field hockey, etc.).
2006-09-21 17:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, got the t-shirt. He's just another guy out for sex, but he might be good in bed. My first time was with my older brother's 20 year old friend and it was really damn good!
2006-09-21 17:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by britney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No crush, that is the starting feeling of love
2006-09-21 17:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So WHAT if he's 20?
How old are YOU?
If you haven't figured out that we can't tell your age if you don't tell us, then most psychology majors would guess that you are no older than 7 but probably under 5.
2006-09-21 17:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, how old are you?
It's just a crush.
Still, how old are you?
Because you sound like you're about the age when, if a 20 year old says he likes you, you tell the nearest grownup.
2006-09-21 17:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe you just know him on line? And maybe you are too young for him? If either are true then it's a crush and don't let it go too far.
2006-09-21 17:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer this for you as I do not know how old you are. Now if the age is okay both ways, then it could be that your heart is trying to tell yousomething.
2006-09-21 17:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, why would you mention the age if you are "of age"? Only someone who was much younger than the person in question would give the age. So... How do you know he likes you? Did he tell you? And... if you are a minor... yew! Date someone your own age!
2006-09-21 17:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by lester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋