Singles & Dating - 21 September 2006

I would like to hear how other people have attempted to.

2006-09-21 03:48:13 · 17 answers · asked by becky 1

I have been told on numerous occaisions that white/caucasion people are more friendlier to black people with a lighter skin complexion than most black people.

One white guy once told me that he finds lighter skinned blacks easier to look at than their darker skinned counterparts.

I know within the black community it is believed that light skin blacks are more prefferred by white people because it is believed that whites cant stand anything that is too dark.

I just wanted to know if it is true.
who would you choose to be your friend? halle berry or naomi campbell. Will smith or Denzel washington

2006-09-21 03:46:48 · 24 answers · asked by Playboy Grove 1

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 48. She thinks he is too old but I love him and I feel he is not only my friend but my father figure. She thinks hes Mexican when hes not just because hes dark and has problems with his age and complexion. She thinks he is not a professional just because he lives in a bad neighborhood but people dont always get paid a lot. She thinks hes illegal because he looks mexican to her and he knows spanish and a lot about the mexican countryside and ways of crossing the border but its only because he has been there many times. She has a problem because he is older than her but I cant stop talking to him. She says she wants to send him to the border but hes from america and she calls him ugly ect omg what to do

2006-09-21 03:46:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you find a good boyfriend.

2006-09-21 03:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by godswordstands4ever 1

My ex, who suddenly decided that he didnt want a relationship about a month ago, never used to sign on to yahoo messenger. Now, everyday I keep seeing him signed on...and it's irritating the hell out of me. I just want him to be completely out of my sight & thoughts. urghhhh........

2006-09-21 03:42:17 · 16 answers · asked by BEAUTIFUL 2

2006-09-21 03:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 3

Hey folks I have a delima. I have been separated from my husband for 7 years (he is well to do and doesn't want a divorce).
I met a pastor (yes we have fooled around a few times, and he's not that good) and we have been dating for three months he is cheap and annoying but also very progressive and has his own business besides being a widowed pastor. In between my husband and the pastor i dated what some might call a thug, he has had some minio infractions with the law in his past. He is fine, a good lover and appears to love me very much. Me and thug have started seeing each other again (for about three weeks I have enjoyed his company so much; thats what pastor gets for traveling 50% of his time) I have received a proposal from pastor and thug and my husband (after cheating on me for years) has asked to reconcile. What would you do ladies? gents welcome to answer also. PS I love thug but he can not give the financially secure life that pastor ir hubby can) Love or Security?

2006-09-21 03:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jazz 4

2006-09-21 03:39:53 · 8 answers · asked by Wacky Crack 1

2006-09-21 03:38:47 · 5 answers · asked by Capton Acorn 1

I got a call form one of my female friends a minute ago.. She use to love to date bad boys . I use to wonder why but after reading a few books and observing life experiences I knwo why she did it. Back to the call, her and a friend shocked me by saying that if they run into a guy they want him to be like me. Sweet caring kind and considerate. And if they were smarter they would ahve tried to have dated me . I been getting a lot of these calls form my female friends lately.. What happened to the wildness in them jeez it seems like after they turned 30, nice guy got in style whats up with that? I thought nice guy were a blahh?

2006-09-21 03:38:20 · 14 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

2006-09-21 03:37:21 · 2 answers · asked by Jared R 1

back me up here fella's i asked her in doors why women are never in the wrong on anything (being sarcastic) she replied that it was because they are always right and that men are thick tw*ts.

i mean the cheek of it

2006-09-21 03:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Besides adam's apples, grabbing their crotch, or asking.

2006-09-21 03:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by Static__Boy 2

I was just wondering...guys say girls are so complicated and confusing. But how confusing is this (i'm going to be as blunt as i can be).....a guy wants sex..he meets a girl, they start to really like each other, and she knows that if she has sex with him that would make him happy....so they do the deed, then he isn't as interested and lost some respect for her for doing it so soon, BUT then if she were to wait, he would be frustrated (both heads, mind you), and guys ALWAYS b**ch about how they don't get sex soon enough, it's like they want the chase but want to get banged at the same time, you can't have your cake and eat it too, a girl who's easy makes you happy but a real woman gets on your nerves and frustrates you, wtf? (and no this isn't something i experienced, i just see it happen so often, and i can't understand it)

2006-09-21 03:32:07 · 11 answers · asked by Bailey 2

I used to go out with my best friend & we were happy for nearly two yrs, he then joined the army and moved to a different country, after about 6months of doing the long distance thing he decided he didnt wanna stay with me, this was last october. Since then has has been out in Iraq, before he left he told me he still loves me.

I don't feel the same about him anymore but lately he has been calling me n telling me that he wants me back & wud do ne thin.

I'm now seeing a guy that i knew from years ago and its really nice not having to deal with such a serious relationship. (i'm starting to really like him)

My ex doesn't know that i'm seeing this new bloke( i dnt wanna tell him while he's out in Iraq) but now he wants me to visit him in germany when he comes home bcz he thinks that my feelings will change when i see him again, but i really don't know what to do,
Do you think my feelings will change if i see him?
Should i just see how it goes with my new bloke??

HELP!!!

2006-09-21 03:31:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 03:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

Now i got ya attention, can anybody enlighten me as to why your tummy gets all fluttery over a man/woman that you have never met, yet you feel a connection!

2006-09-21 03:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by ball_cathie 4

We all have the Top 5 list. We may call it different things but the basic concept is the same. The FIVE celebs that we are "allowed" to be with-given the chance.
I'll start with my list...
Seth Green
Joaquin Phoenix
Hugh Jackman
Billie Joe Armstrong
#5 is an up & coming player in the custom bikes game

2006-09-21 03:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by laneydoll 5

Ok well do you think its wrong for a 13 year old to go out with a 19 year old even if they are in fact in love??

Age doesnt matter..right??

I would like your input on this kind of relationship..

Is it wrong??

2006-09-21 03:26:27 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 1

And not be required to sleep with him that night?

2006-09-21 03:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4

This guy I have been seeing for over a year, supposedly has a preconceived notion that my parents might be hoity toity because they are more well off than his parents. He may get this assumption by the way I dress, or the car I drive, but I've always been truly a down to earth person, and money wouldn't matter to me as long as I was happy. But I really didn't get a chance to open up to him, because he never really opened up to me.. until he had to move back home for certain reasons. Then I told him that my parents are very down to earth, aren't flashy & like people for who they are. But I want him to know that money doesn't mean sh*t to me as long as I had him. But my "outside" appearance may speak otherwise. The reason is I used to model, & I was trying to hold on to that fantasy & I dressed in a way that people who knew me expected me to dress. And that may have hurt my chances of getting serious w/him. How do I reveal that to him? He's away now, not too far, but I want to be honest.

2006-09-21 03:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2

He lied to me, I fell before I found out the truth, and I can't get over him, my life is at a standstill. my heart can't move on...It's been almost a year....and I can't move on.

2006-09-21 03:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by Babsygirl 4

I am very much in love with this guy who is in the army. He says he loves me too but isn't ready for a relationship just yet because of working away all the time. He phones, txts and comes to see me all the time. He has just got back from serving in Iraq, and is due to go to Afghanistan in January. Should i wait until he's ready or move on? Help me please!

2006-09-21 03:19:11 · 34 answers · asked by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4

We all know that 20 questions can be a dangerous game. But, I was playing the game with this person:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnMFmyY9oRivL2SrOdyhhQDsy6IX?qid=20060919064147AAdl86u

a few weeks ago. At first, of course, all the questions were of the sexual nature. Then he starts asking me where I stand on political issues such as the war & death penalty.

I was thinking about this last night, and I thought I would ask your opinions on if you think this could have possibly been another test to size me up as a potiential girlfriend? Guys, would you ask questions NOT related to sex if you were interested in more?

2006-09-21 03:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

I work w/ a guy I have a crush on. He will be quitting our work place in about 2 weeks. Me and him email eachother all day during work and at home.. I'm interested in him but I don't know if he is.. He's a very quiet guy and our emails are just friendly conversations.... What does this mean...? The most he says is " don't worry, email me whenever you want to " ...... Help! time is running out!

2006-09-21 03:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by Rodriguez #57 2

Im wondering if not trying to sleep wiht a woman on the first date is a mistake. It seems everytime I try , I can do that. But whenever I trry to at least wait till the third date or so , trying to learn about a woman and all, the lady loses interest. I guess being a gentleman or at least treating a woman right , those days are over.
A shame I ahve more fun when I treat them like crap then when im respectful, kind and curtious towards them.
I dont like the jerky path anymore, but it seems that the only way to get callbacks and more dates, is the way of the gentleman, good man, gone like the dodo?

2006-09-21 03:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

Ive had many of good men come my way but they dont appeal to me even though thats what I should be goin for.Am I crazy? Plus bad guys sex is always the bomb!

2006-09-21 03:16:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife has gained a few pounds, she's a beefy 135 i'd say...

im looking for one of those diet milkshake sort of things (like slimfast) that i can sneak into her food so she'll lose weight real quick.

i dont want her to know im feeding it to her because she might be embarassed infront of our 4 children... any help would be appreciated.

2006-09-21 03:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 03:14:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-21 03:13:03 · 35 answers · asked by stressed 3