Hey folks I have a delima. I have been separated from my husband for 7 years (he is well to do and doesn't want a divorce).
I met a pastor (yes we have fooled around a few times, and he's not that good) and we have been dating for three months he is cheap and annoying but also very progressive and has his own business besides being a widowed pastor. In between my husband and the pastor i dated what some might call a thug, he has had some minio infractions with the law in his past. He is fine, a good lover and appears to love me very much. Me and thug have started seeing each other again (for about three weeks I have enjoyed his company so much; thats what pastor gets for traveling 50% of his time) I have received a proposal from pastor and thug and my husband (after cheating on me for years) has asked to reconcile. What would you do ladies? gents welcome to answer also. PS I love thug but he can not give the financially secure life that pastor ir hubby can) Love or Security?
2006-09-21 03:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jazz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would keep looking none of these guys seem right for you. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 03:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY MOLY girlfriend what a mess! Only you know where your heart is and what you should do....How about none of them? ! LOL Pastor - NO you dont enjoy his imtimacy and that's important in a relationship....whatever people say...lifes too short for bad sex...! Thug - ah NO sounds like a life time of trouble. Husband...I dont know do you still love him? Go with who you love..truly love and take what life throws at you I guess. Marriage is always hard no matter what..... Good luck...there are other fish in the sea you know!
2006-09-21 03:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say love! Divorce your husband and get some of his money and tell the thug to get a job. Then you can live with who you love! If your husband cheated he'll cheat again. Pastors aren't home very much. You'll be lonely.
2006-09-21 03:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by dddawesome 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! You sound busy. I would start all over. None of them sound like a lasting love. From the sounds of this story I don't think you will have a problem meeting someone special. I say hold out for the real deal. Your worth more than you think.
2006-09-21 03:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by smile4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the husband! What happens when the thug can no longer satisfy you as a lover? I say plan for the future, sex isn't everything! Besides, you marry for better or worse!
2006-09-21 03:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me put your question another way....
Do you want the:
Thug who has criminal convictions, can't support you financially and might end up back in prsion
or
Pastor who is a rubbish lover and travels away half the time
or
Cheating ex husband
To be truthful with you, they all sound like more trouble than they're worth. Dump them all and move on.
2006-09-21 03:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Up until final wintry climate i could go with wintry climate each time. something relating to the record volume of snow that i had to shovel, push, plow or snow-blow removed from homes, roofs, sidewalks and driveways further a down part to wintry climate. i will bypass with wintry climate after a pause for concept as my widespread game (Ice Hockey) can not quite be performed without wintry climate, impressive?
2016-10-17 09:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always LOVE. You look around in the world and see people well off with money and that does not necessarily make them happy. But love will conquer all.
2006-09-21 03:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by sunprincess101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't choose either of the 2. Sounds like you have issues with both of them. Maybe you should break away from both of them and be on your own for a while.
2006-09-21 03:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the thug money can't buy happiness.
2006-09-21 03:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋