Im wondering if not trying to sleep wiht a woman on the first date is a mistake. It seems everytime I try , I can do that. But whenever I trry to at least wait till the third date or so , trying to learn about a woman and all, the lady loses interest. I guess being a gentleman or at least treating a woman right , those days are over.
A shame I ahve more fun when I treat them like crap then when im respectful, kind and curtious towards them.
I dont like the jerky path anymore, but it seems that the only way to get callbacks and more dates, is the way of the gentleman, good man, gone like the dodo?
2006-09-21 03:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just smack them, and carry them up to your room.
Works everytime for me.
2006-09-21 03:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the type of woman you seek. A gentleman seeks a woman of virtue. If you think those days are over because you have more fun treating them like crap, then you my friend were never a gentleman in the fist place. So enjoy the crap you find for you reap what you sow.
2006-09-21 03:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Chivalry77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people, whether men or women, can't handle the concept of a gentleman's club, which is known more commonly as a strip club. For those who are open-minded and not puritanical at heart, it can be fun for both men and women to go to. I've taken women to them and I've also dated dancers.
2016-03-27 00:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be the women you're going out with. If they are looking for a one night stand then they aren't planning to stick around for long regardless. If all you are doing is thinking about when you plan on having sex with the woman then you aren't being a gentleman at all. You're just going through the motions.
2006-09-21 03:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by camus0281 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not all women are like that. I would call a guy if he acts like a gentleman on the first date! I'm sick with these ***-holes trying to get me in the sack after we went out for a few hours.
2006-09-21 03:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may find that they lose interest, but carry on being the gentleman and you will find the the right kind of girl will appreciate it. If they lose interest when you don't try for sex, then they're only after sex and not really the nicest kind of girl! :)
2006-09-21 03:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem is probably your choice of women. If you're still dating the kind of women you went for when you were being a playa -- you know, the ones who probably just wanted sex -- then they're not into gentlemen. Try it with the ones you would've ignored before, because you knew they wouldn't put out.
2006-09-21 03:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that gurlz are used to alot of guyz bein jerks & they have adopted the system. also u mite b goin w/ the wrong gurlz if they cant respect themselves more than that. maybe u need 2 try being a gentleman w/ an actual LADY.
2006-09-21 03:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, it's not gone. You're just not meeting the right women. Hey man, have your fun with the cheap girls and settle down with a nice one.
That's the way it is anyway. Easy girls get used by us for what we want and then disrespected and dropped when we're finished.
Easy girls end up alone, good girls end up married. It's that simple
2006-09-21 03:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think ......real woman like to be treated like what we are Ladies...if you are a gentleman thats charmin I dont know what kind of woman you use to hang on maybe thats the problem......it is you u choose the wrong girls...think about it!!
2006-09-21 03:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt sleep with anyone on the first date, but i did sleep wit myb/f on the second. a gentleman wont kiss at the end of a first date, thats what i want on the first date.
2006-09-21 03:20:12 · answer #11 · answered by Me♥Manatees 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋