I have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. We get along great, we have a lot in common, and yes we are sleeping together. I am in love with him, and he knows it. The problem is that he says he does not love me. We are both over 30, and have been through relationships before. I could accept the whole friends with benefits thing except he does things that make me think there may be more. I see him almost every day, and if I don't I talk to him on the phone . He goes out of his way to spend time, not just with me, but my family. He keeps saying things about the future, like it is a given that we will be there together, and he invites me to family and church functions. He is always honest and caring. I have to explain to people that he in NOT my boyfriend, because they assume he is. Nobody knows that we are sleeping together, they all think a friends only .
What does it sound like to you? is this how love starts? or am I projecting my feelings onto him?
2006-09-20
04:13:08
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tigweldkat
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