okay, so i don't love my ex-fiance anymore, not at all, but everyone that i know wants us to be together, even my co-workers, i recently just hooked back up with my high school sweetheart after 8 years and im totally falling for him, he's also expressed that he's very intrested in me also. now my ex-fiance will be working for the same company as me and i will have to see him a lot, i only feel like i would be with him for stability, not love, what should i do??
2006-09-20 04:14:14 · 13 answers · asked by hermosa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U should follow ure heart. who cares wat everyone else thinks if u and him r happy thats all that matters. U don't want to marry someone and be miserable ure whole life. follow ure heart
2006-09-20 04:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by badgirl 419 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart stranger, know this tho ur mind is always stronget than the heart believe it or not everything starts and ends witht he mind. ur mind tells you what u want but the heart has the last word or should i say feeling ur fiance is ur ex now why is that? and u r with ur hs sweetheart, i suggest that u go wit ur hs sweetheart nothign is ever stable trust me but when u have some1 that is willing to go thru life not not how bad it can get that all the stable u need, money can but lots of thing without money u can't move ur sure to be stuck in squre 1 but like i said if u go thru life alone and unhappy things get worst.
2006-09-20 11:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by EiaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you questioning your own feelings? Trust them, be with the one your heart tells you to. Don't listen to other people. Your ex-fiance is an ex for a reason. Whatever reason it is, you've already identified that you would only be with him for stability. Do what your heart says.
Be with the one you love.
2006-09-20 11:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be with someone you're not attracted to! It's a generally bad idea. Stay with the one you love! If this is your highschool sweet heart then go for it!
2006-09-20 11:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some "me" time...start at the beginning with BOTH of them. Date them both and see what progresses from there.
2006-09-20 11:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt read your short story but here's what it boils down to...be with the one you love and love you right back....
2006-09-20 11:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go be with the one that you love. your high school sweetheart.
2006-09-20 11:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make yourself happy you only live once...Why should you do what makes everybody else happy?? Just be your ex's friend.. Be with the one who makes you happy..You only live once don't live miserably..
2006-09-20 11:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who will LOVE You the most...(& not Lust)
2006-09-20 11:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by tygger in pa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to dat clown
2006-09-20 11:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋