My love finished because some one interupted in it. also my job cancelled because of another person interuption. should I finish my life or I should deal with those who betrayed my life. I am 28y male.
I also have lost any hopes for the replacement of these two tragedies.
2006-09-20 03:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone very dear told me something about people ending their own life. "when everything looks down and out, it can really only get better soon". Just wait it out, things happen for a reason, your next job might give you greater satisfaction, your next love might be the one you spend the rest of your life with and have children with.
2006-09-20 04:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Heather S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to replace either of these two issues. Life is too worthwhile to end over these "tragedies". Love will come along and find a sensitive person like you. She'll/he'll be someone who will appreciate you and only you.As far as the work thing goes, new jobs happen all the time.You'll probably find a job you'd like even more than the one you just lost. Don't give-up on life; it is good and will be good for you again just have hope. Maybe it would help for you to try to think like this. Don't give the loser who took your job or the b#@ch who broke your heart the satisfaction of killing yourself. Go out find someone new, find a job ( or education) you love then smile and know you are infinitely better off without these others in your life. Hang in there, have hope, and all will be well given time.
2006-09-20 11:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about it. You HAD love, you HAD a job, and you ARE still the same person. So the chances of finding another love, and another job, are excellent. Come on man, you are 28?! Your life has not even begun yet, ending it now, especially on reasons as daft as these, would be an enormous waste.
And on hope.. I've often lost it myself, but the key is to open your eyes: hope is all around you. Really, it sits on window ledges, it hides behind the label on a can of soup, it drops down on you when you venture out in the rain, it flies across when someone looks at you even for a second.. It's everywhere. Just throw your door open.
2006-09-20 11:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is too beautiful to just throw away. Relationships, and Jobs will come and go, and rightfully so. You only have one life too live, and spending too much time with one thing will make it very stale. Your a young guy with the whole world in front of you. Stop looking at it like you lost these things. Look at it like you have a great opportunity to try something new. Anything new. You've got a clean slate! Some people would kill for that. Take this time to find out who you are. Don't define yourself by what you do for a living or who you surround yourself around, and whatever you do, don't give up. Good luck.
2006-09-20 11:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by troutking31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do such a ridiculous thing honey. These things happen in what we call life. Man I wish mum and dad had a manual handy when I was born *attempt at humour*... Things don't always go the way we'd prefer but if that were the case, it sure would be a very mundane, boring life. Look at what's happened as another chapter in your life that has come to an end. Smile at the good memories and learn from the bad. Take the good with you and don't be afraid to look forward to the new future life is offering you. It is double-fold with happiness, joy, love and laughter. All you have to do is be able to have the courage to look forward. I know it is hard but when it comes to pass then only will you know that is was worth pursuing. Take a deep breathe and smile, if not for me :-)
2006-09-20 11:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever give up. You can find another love in time. And also you can find another job. Regarding those that have betray you, time will catch up with them. Now for you, go on with your life. You are still young and have your whole life ahead. Maybe it's time to change careers or move to another city or state. Keep your head up. It will get better.
2006-09-20 11:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This top too will pass. Believe me. In a year you will look back on what seems terrible today and wonder why you ever fretted about it to begin with.
In the meantime, get some help. Call a counselor. Having someone to talk to will make a big difference.
2006-09-20 11:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro, both of these things are replaceable. No job, sounds like a vacation. Go have some fun
2006-09-20 11:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by youngfinedudmomo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No please don't do that.you didn't put your self on earth so why should you take your life from yourself.it's just going to send you to hell when you die and because theirs people in this world that care for you love you and wants to be with you.you just need give it time for real,pray that's the # 1 thing you should do plz don't do this think it over plz plz for me.I love you and i really do.
2006-09-20 11:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by keyke 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life that's what you need to do when you think you have it bad someone out there have it worst everything happens for a reason and you need to just let the past be the past and move on
2006-09-20 11:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋