I was one of her roommates in Camp Anne (a special needs camp for the mentally disabled this summer). She supported me the first few days when I didnt know what the hell I was doing and said "I dont want you to leave when I was very close to leaving. At meetings she said multiple times that I am the only one doing work even though that wasnt true. She is 26 I am 19. She pretty much created distance between us though and I had a different girl in camp afterwards. Now she moved to NYC from Poland permanently to work in AHRC and live here. I told her to contact me if she needs something still no word. Do I make a push and call/ email her or u think she just wanted to be a motherly figure to me in camp?
2006-09-20 04:07:07 · 22 answers · asked by RT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already live in NY. She is probably already here for like a couple of weeks but maybe she is adjusting to work and has no time. Then again maybe its just an excuse for me. U are probably right she was just being friendly.I really dont know why I should call her instead of the other way around. If she really cares she will call me herself.
2006-09-20 04:15:08 · update #1
AB u are a pri.k. 7 year difference is a little too much yeah but not if she looks and acts 19. Then age doesnt really matter. I would go for it but I know how you feel to shy to get rejected and call her. Just wait it out another month and if she doesnt call u then either get a job at the place where she works or give up on her.
2006-09-20 04:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably liked you when you were around, but now she's probably moved on or is thinking of you in retrospect. Don't feel bad and don't dwell on it. Distance does this to relationships. However if you feel it is your quest in life, hunt the girl down, kiss her, marry her and have 3 kids. I'd just move on and get a girl who's closer that I can actually be with.
2006-09-20 11:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was just being nice. most 26 year olds will not hit on a 19 year old. you are different points in your life. you probably liked her and read into her niceness. sorry about being blunt but I'm close to her age and can't see it happening. now maybe in 10 years she may be interested but as for now you are a kid to her.
2006-09-20 11:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by shortnsweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not too sure because you didnt give that much info but ya i think if you felt a connectiion you really should email her or something... maybe tell her your going to NY for something and ask if you could hang out
2006-09-20 11:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call man, you got nothing to loose.
Even if nothing works out in the end, its better to regret something you did do rather than something you didn't.
2006-09-20 11:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by supersonikid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jjust ask her everything you just asked here. be direct and ask if hse was interested or likes you. that's the best advice i can give. that way, you'll know for sure and can adjust accordingly as soon as possible. good luck.
2006-09-20 11:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have wanted to be a mother figure but u never know .all i can tell u to do is give her a call.u'll know what she wants in u the first ten minutes of ur conversation
2006-09-20 11:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by nena5271 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate dirty _ n Who was she & you as first question, 'Workers ?' Oh I see age here she's six year older All time I know that it is hard but stay true!
2006-09-20 11:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Doesnt Like You Fool.
2006-09-20 11:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errr...try is the best i think instead leave her like that cuz maybe they are some space for both of u and maybe she do like u which instead of not but its kinda kutcher and demi moore relationship....haha....but i think u had ur right to do the best in ur life....so be cool
2006-09-20 11:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋