2006-09-20 04:07:26 · 10 answers · asked by chix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not recommended. Some1 always gets left out, then the arguments start. Some things are best left to fantasy b/c reality never takes into account how things go AFTER the fact.
2006-09-20 04:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dookiee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fantasy of a threesome is soooooo inviting. I can't tell you the number of times I've personally had that one, or the number of times I've been asked if I would enjoy something like that. And... if everyone is unattached it can (and has been from personal experiance) a wonderful time! Mind blowing!!!
BUT....
Once you are in a committed relationship (i.e. monogomous b/f-g/f, married, etc) then there is a HUGE danger in adding a third to the bedroom. I have yet to see a time where this actually worked out for the best if the couple has never done this before and then did it when in a committed relationship.
What has been the problem? Every time its been the same. One of the committed partners starts freaking out (usually later but sometimes during the threesome) that the other one prefers the "new" person over them. Or that the will prefer them over them. or they had too good a time with them and will they meet them one-on-one now. Every time it has ruined the relationship. EVERY single time!
Now.. thats not to say it can't work. I've seen it work... like I said earlier... if none of the participants is in a committed relationship it works.. and I've seen it work when the partners have done it before falling into the committed relationship - but even then I've seen that blow up too.
yes I've done it... yes I've been asked by my b/f and I said no. He was interested because he knew I had done it before and wanted to see what he was missing. And I guess it was something he just couldn't get past because a while later he broke up with me because I wouldn't do this (go figure) and he told me that is one of the reasons we were together was that "possibility" was out there and once that was gone... so was he.
So.. if YOU don't want to do it tell him why and see what he does... chances are you may not have to leave him... he may leave you... or he may surprise you and say .. "ok.. cool.. i was just curious". the bottom line is never, ever, ever, never let anyone PUSH you into doing anything you don't want to do. ever!
2006-09-20 04:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall in love bro! 3 is always a crowd. Women usually get freaked out by 3 - guys for sure do (unless it's a woman). It's always fun on the first go, maybe even the second, but the third is always tricky as there are usually some sort of feelings involved. Don't break hearts just for your own personal satisfaction. However, with all that said - it is so much fun if you can work it out. Good luck.
2006-09-20 04:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by TexasLSUTiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the third party.
2006-09-20 04:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he could be talking about the independant party. I think it's a great alternative to the democrats and the republicans!! lol
2006-09-20 04:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more the merrier. Don't you think so? Cheers!
2006-09-20 04:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with them if your partner is tired!
2006-09-20 04:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if its another girl.
2006-09-20 04:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about them?
2006-09-20 04:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is THAT really your question? How stupid are you?
2006-09-20 04:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋