Should I be upset if my boyfriend said another girls name in his sleep and thought he was calling for me?

Question

This morning I woke up to my boyfriend calling out another girls name that he works with. I've had my insecurities about her but she is really nice, pretty and we are friends but my boyfriend thought he was calling me to come closer to him but said her name? I know he was sleep talking but I don't really understand the psychology of it all. He sincerely apologized and said he had NO feelings for her that way but should I be worried?

Answer 1

No. You can't control what your mind does when you're sleeping. He's probably attracted to her, but you can't control that either. If you're mature enough, you'll recognize it's normal to be attracted to other people outside your couple. Being faithful simply means you don't act on those impulses.
This being said, it all depends on how well you trust your boyfriend and how open you are with one another. It's normal for you to feel jealous at something like this, but whether you should actually be worried is a question of trust and openness.

Answer 2

the real question is how much do you really trust him if you already have your insecurities then you know that answer but try really talking it out with him tell him what exactly bothers you about his relationship with his work mate he may just be feeling your insecurities and his subconcience is trying to resolve it for him in his dream he may have been calling you closer and pushing her away but above all else yall need to talk this through truthfully and fully and if it is not resolved then be worried

Answer 3

there is nothignt o b worried about, well at least not from the sleep talking. my wife and i sleep talk all the time abotu the most bizarr things, some people just ahveodd dreams, my wife called out a 45 year old guys namr say she just wanted to kiss him once (shes 21) lol so dont worry about it

Answer 4

Don't worry, He's a man. He probably imagines 20 diff women a day naked. The beauty of it is, men can tell the difference between love and lust. Thats why he wakes up next to you every morning and not someone else :)

Answer 5

No you should not be upset. It is healthy for a person to dream and they can not always control their thoughts. Would you want him to be mad if you did the same thing in your sleep? What we say in our sleep cannot always be controled and it does not usally mean anything. Maybe in the dream she was aways away and he wanted to talk to her. There could be a million reasons but getting mad never helps the relationship.

Answer 6

Well.......................
You should be. I am not saying that he is doing something with her but talking in your sleep is a subconscious thing. Don't get to close to the girl though cause she could use this to have relations with your man behind your back.
She s on his mind for sure, for what reason, i can't say.
But do not hurt your head love. Just be more observant.

Answer 7

Yes, if you have been suspecting his other actions of late. Or you have some other more concrete evidence.Otherwise, worry not. Men say stuff about some girl they wish they could bonk.It does not mean they ever will.

Answer 8

Girl are you crazy if my man said some body else name in bed then i would slap him in the face but if it was a famous person then every body has fanstaies.

Answer 9

Nah. I think you are okay. Dreams are uncontrollable. Now if he said her name in bed while you guys were doing your "thing" then I would be worried.

Answer 10

I mean, he was just dreaming, right? I wouldn't be exactly thrilled about it, but don't get too worked up about it. If your boyfriend is trustworthy, then let it go.