Singles & Dating - 19 September 2006

My ex went back to his wife "for the kids". They were separated when we got together. But he still calls me all the time and wants to see me. We both agree we have never felt a connection with another person like we do for eachother. (we are not sleeping together). He doesn't want to be with his wife he says, but yet he's with her. He says he is working on leaving her. Well, our song is on the radio literally everytime I turn it on. Is this an omen or a sign that we end up together?

2006-09-19 07:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which is more important to you in a relationship? Love...or money....

For me, love wins everytime!!!

2006-09-19 07:22:38 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

Asking out a girl is a bit of a risky business, specially when she works with you.. and she just broke up with her boyfriend only a week ago (nothing to do with me..unfortunately :). is it best to wait for sometime..? any best practices known? please help

2006-09-19 07:21:26 · 24 answers · asked by Olderwiser 4

I think my b/f is ready for us to have sex and i'm not sure i want to. I've really got to decide if I'm willing to or not in the next few weeks. I'm not a virgin anymore so why should I worry? Can anyone help me out?

2006-09-19 07:21:04 · 4 answers · asked by his lil GA peach 2

Hey I am doing this survey thing and I'm jus wondering who guys are more attracted to, blondes or brunettes?

2006-09-19 07:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do i have the need to always be with him? i am always sad and irratible when he is not around.I want to think i am in love. but i think its to early.we have only been dating for 7 weeks.I still don't know if he likes me in the same way. I know he cares,but i really don't know how to ask him how he really feels.Maybe i am just being stupid,what do u think? I still have not told him how i feel.I don't even know if i should. I love the way he makes me laugh and the way i feel when he touches me. I believe i could ruin this if i'm not careful.

2006-09-19 07:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by confused shelly 1

2006-09-19 07:19:54 · 34 answers · asked by Cyber Spacer 2

wearing panties turns me on but im not gay i just wnated to know if i should tell my gf and i was wondering if she might like it? can u help?

2006-09-19 07:17:10 · 20 answers · asked by Panties for me 1

Do you hate them just because they were with them before? And does thinking about them just make you mad and disgusted.

2006-09-19 07:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by Go Bears Go 2

When do you get to the point when, that your dreams aren't going to come true...is it wrong to hope that you will actually get him one day..that he likes you, but he doesn't know if you feel the same way..but you once felt that way...and he knew..but at that point in time he was seeing someone...and the only thing you seem to hold on to is the fact that he noticed that you weren't around like before..I want to feel safe in the arms of a guy who cares for me. Also how do you let go of the past..how do you stop thinking that everyone is going to hurt you again...How do you stop worrying that you won't be dropped as a friend..out of the blue?

2006-09-19 07:15:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 07:14:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy online, and i am really interested in him

2006-09-19 07:14:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 07:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1

I am confused because the guy that I love say's he love's me to, but yet he doesn't want a girlfriend. What's up with that?

2006-09-19 07:13:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grabbed my a s s and called me Sally, can I sue ? He knows my name is not Sally that really p i s s e s me off.

2006-09-19 07:13:31 · 15 answers · asked by candidworker 5

When my man and I are having sex.. he wants me to tell him how good it is, say his name, moan and stuff like that.. but I think screaming and moaning sounds so stupid... Its kind of funny because its so simple and I cant do it because moaning to me sounds whack!! Any advice as to what I should do?? For mature adults only!!!!!

2006-09-19 07:11:35 · 24 answers · asked by Whitney 2

2006-09-19 07:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by NONAME 1

2006-09-19 07:09:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my ex just broke up with her bf a couple of weeks ago and I wanted to start hanging out/be friends again. Our break up was on good terms and we remained friends (just not hanging out type). What can we do/where can we go so we can get the ball rolling? I want to do something fun that she'll remember, but nothing that would make her feel awkward like it's a date.

2006-09-19 07:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm dating this guy not quite exclusive but getting there...he asked me to be his girl but ,i'm so afraid ...he shows me wonderful attention but i can't seem to get used to it...i have this thought in the back of my head that is setting me up for failure..why am i expecting the worse to happen?? how can i let my guard down??

2006-09-19 07:08:31 · 20 answers · asked by Gemini 3

2006-09-19 07:06:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I called him over the weekend but each time either has dad or bro ans. the phone & said he wasn't home, Sun. I came back from my aunts and he left a mess. saying he was up at camp over the weekend , so i called him later around 7 and his dad answered and said he wasn't there.. never got a phone call later either. Then I saw him monday @ school and peaked in his classroom and we both waved at each other and i sorta mouthed like wait for me , cause unfortunately we don't have any classes together, but my las class is right next to his, and his class ended and then he'll usually wait like 10 mins and then my class is done and then we walk out together but when i got out of my class he wasn't there! So i waited like 5 mins and then went down stairs and thencame back up to see if he was there but he wasn't, so i called him when i got home and his dad said he'd tell him to call me cause he wasn't there, but he never called and i don't see him today ,what do i do?? or am i overreacting?

2006-09-19 07:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by kate 1

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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26 minutes ago
And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

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3 hours ago
But it's weird, like sometimes she'll seem sad, cuz she wants to be with me, then shell go and be REALLy happy and flirty with this other guy, then shell come up and talk to me, like she misses me, and then shell go flirt with him, I'm just SO CONFUSED, please help.

3 hours ago
but i mean, the way she is around him, is the way she used to be around me, and its weird, cuz we dont talk nearly nearly as much as we used to, and its almost like shes sad, or missin that or sumthin, but then all over this other guy

2006-09-19 07:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by robinson z 1

I've always lived my life with a sense of balance and readiness, and now it seems this policy might end up hurting me. I always told myself that the first girl I had sex with would be someone I really cared about because I didnt want my first sexual experience to be an awkward mistake that I would end up regretting later on. So I've had a few girlfriends thoughout my life, but either through, the relationship not lasting long enough to really care for the person, them not being ready, or them being religous I never had sex; and only messed around with them and such. Now at 21 years of age I finally slept with girl I care about and both of us were ready. She is the same age and has slept with 3 other guys, which bothers me somewhat but not extremely. The thing im really scared of is that I never planned for my first sexual experience to be my only one, and as the relationship gets more serious. Part of me keeps thinking I want to have sex with at least one more person. Please help.

2006-09-19 07:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls, I travel alot on business, and because I'm constantly between cities it's hard for me to consider a relationship. With that in mind- It seems like a lot of girls don't want to admit to having one night stands in person, but since no one knows who you really are here, spill. Do you have one nighters and flings often and what's the best way to convince girls to go for it.

2006-09-19 07:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by joe 3

I'm infatuated with a guy. i used to like him 4 years ago, then we lost contact and i fotgot him. saw him again this year,,,and i can't stop dreaming about him all the time now. i dunno why, i'm 18 and feel quite old for these sort of things....He just wants to play with me.

How do i forget him?

2006-09-19 07:04:12 · 36 answers · asked by babychi 4

If a girl is always finding ways to be alone with me, does that mean she wants to be more than friends? Or could she just be friendly? What would a girl talk to a guy about if she gets him alone and is trying to hint at him?

2006-09-19 07:02:07 · 17 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

My ex and I are thinking about getting back together, but i'm having doubts... The reason we broke up in the first place was because i felt like he didn't trust me.. Now he's saying that we are growing up and the time apart has helped him realize how much he loves me... but i think that he's dating another girl... I don't have solid proof but i don't want to enter a relationship with him and i'm feeling like i can't trust him... What should I do

2006-09-19 07:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Foxxy 4

Does it make the panties more comfortable.

2006-09-19 07:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is not rich and he doesn't have a huge penis so that can't be it. I asked him how he does it, and he just says he talks to women. He never elaborates anymore than that.

2006-09-19 06:58:07 · 33 answers · asked by JistheRealDeal 5