I'm infatuated with a guy. i used to like him 4 years ago, then we lost contact and i fotgot him. saw him again this year,,,and i can't stop dreaming about him all the time now. i dunno why, i'm 18 and feel quite old for these sort of things....He just wants to play with me.
How do i forget him?
2006-09-19 07:04:12 · 36 answers · asked by babychi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just seeking trouble for yourself if you still think about a guy whom you know just wanna toy with you.
Or maybe you just fancy the thrill.
Usually,such cases don't really need someone to teach,cos the sense of danger will always be good enough to draw the potential victim away from the cliff. But for your case,maybe you just need to fall once to feel the hurt and learn from the lesson.
Think again before you take my latter advice.
Have fun!
2006-09-19 07:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to forget him, but, keep in mind that you say he just plays with you. Don't let the infatuation with him stop you from living your life. I know how it is to feel that way, because Im 40, and I had an affair with my married boss, and I still think of him all the time. I no longer work there and I havent seen him for about a year, but the other day he emailed me to see how I was, and It has started again, I cant seem to get him off my mind......
2006-09-19 07:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by medgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read these books by Dr Laura - "10 things woman do to mess up their lives" and "proper care and feeding of husbands" they will explain lots of important info you will need in the next 10 years. It will explain that woman have all the power in relationships and if they go bad it's generally because they have misallocated it in some way. Also you will learn to become the best YOU you can be and if you do that a quality MAN will find you - rather than just a guy. You will learn not to give it up to every guy and then try to mold him into a man cuz you don't want to start over again. It's a lot of things like this that you need to learn. Hope you take the time to read them several times. Very good luck!!!!!
2006-09-19 07:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by awf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should sit him down and talk to him. See what his feelings are for you. (if any). Let him know how you feel and what you are looking for. If he does not feel the same way that you do then I think the only way to forget him is after you talk to him this last time make sure you make it the last time. Go out and try to meet other people, there is always someone out there for you that may be looking for the same thing that you are looking for. Just like you forgot about him before you can do it again and as long as you let him play with your mind he's going to do that. Don't let him make you feel like you can't do better.
2006-09-19 07:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From everything you said I would say loose contact with him again that worked the last time.
How do u know he just wants to play with you? Is there more to this story than you're telling.
2006-09-19 07:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1) Fight with all your strength any urge you have to be with this guy, no matter how painfull playing in your mind all the bad things that can and WILL happen to you if you fall for him until you get it
2) Fall for him, get used, abused and thrown away and then regret it for a very long time
Your choice....choose wisely and good luck!
2006-09-19 07:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play with you how?
anyways, i really liked a guy for four years. i finally got over him over the summer, but then school started again and now i'm crushing on him again! just find some other guy to be absorbed in...who knows, maybe you'll completely forget about the first guy.
2006-09-19 07:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young have fun and play for a while. No reason to strap yourself down now. So if he wants to play...play. It may lead to something later and it may not. Just don't get pregnant, that might put a damper on the play.
2006-09-19 07:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by SAHM3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one-itis:
A disorder commonly found in AFCs(average frustrated chumps), that forces them to think that one chick (person) is so special that they'll do ANYTHING to get into her panties (be with them). The most common cure for this disease is to go out and **** a Baker's Dozen of other chicks (start seeing other people) to see that one piece isn't that special.
Sources:
fastseduction.com
http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml
2006-09-19 07:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 isnt old "for these sort of things", actually these "infatuating" feelings never go away.
the best bet is either to date him and get it over with, or completely ignore him. dont talk to him for awhile, loose contact again.
2006-09-19 07:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by rachey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋