I called him over the weekend but each time either has dad or bro ans. the phone & said he wasn't home, Sun. I came back from my aunts and he left a mess. saying he was up at camp over the weekend , so i called him later around 7 and his dad answered and said he wasn't there.. never got a phone call later either. Then I saw him monday @ school and peaked in his classroom and we both waved at each other and i sorta mouthed like wait for me , cause unfortunately we don't have any classes together, but my las class is right next to his, and his class ended and then he'll usually wait like 10 mins and then my class is done and then we walk out together but when i got out of my class he wasn't there! So i waited like 5 mins and then went down stairs and thencame back up to see if he was there but he wasn't, so i called him when i got home and his dad said he'd tell him to call me cause he wasn't there, but he never called and i don't see him today ,what do i do?? or am i overreacting?
2006-09-19 07:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all don't automatically assume that you are being dumped like some of the others have suggested although at your age this is how most guys dump someone. But what if you are wrong?
I'm going to take a wild guess and suggest that you are in middle school or early highschool. And at this stage a couple things could be playing out.
1. He may be feeling very smothered and since guys don't do very well at communicating their feelings he is just trying to avoid you.
2. He may be inconsiderate. If so do you really want someone that is that inconsiderate?
3. He may not have you as high up on his priority list as you have him at this point. And at your age there is no need to rush these things. Spend time with your friends and if he wants to spend time with you then he will let you know.
4. Maybe he is just very busy and has trouble remembering things.
At any rate if your happiness depends on someone else being around then your not ready for a relationship anyway. When we depend on others to make us happy then we set ourselves up for disappointment. If you find ways to make yourself happier on your own, like hobbies, activities such as sports, scouting, volunteering or whatever makes you happy, then you will be happier regardless of having a boyfriend or not. Your boyfriend should add to your life, not be your life.
And yes, I am much older but that doesn't take away from the truth of what I am saying, I was your age once.
2006-09-19 07:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the internet and he does also then e-mail him a letter telling him how you feel and you want to know whats going on. If he doesn't then see if someone you both know will tell him to please call you whatever night and then tell him then. If that doesn't work then try mailing him a letter if you know his address. Other wise maybe wait after school for him and try to talk to him then. It sounds to me that hes trying to avoid you for some reason. Ask around i'm sure someone knows something.
2006-09-19 14:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing your getting dumped. I'd give him some space, still be friendly but quite calling him and waiting for him. If he has a locker maybe drop him a little note of somekind.
2006-09-19 14:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by SAHM3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's getting obvious--he's found someone else. but that just makes him a zero. he should tell before he breaks your heart. he could also be avoiding you because he could be thinking that you're mad at him for being gone. you did mouth 'wait for me' and he could think that you want to give him a good scolding.
2006-09-19 14:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,,,get your act together and figure out just what it is you are really asking. Seems like you are over eager to get with this guy and he is being reluctant.
2006-09-19 14:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, ur aren't overreacting. 4 get him. he's throwing mad hints, or maybe he's just waaaay busy. but if he really cared he would have at least tried to get in touch with u.....4 get him.
2006-09-19 14:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by LyricalPoeticPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him. wait for him to call you. you know what don't even wait cause if he doesn't return your calls don't try no more you got better things to do.
2006-09-19 14:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he avoiding you.
2006-09-19 14:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you REALLY need to use the spell checker
2006-09-19 14:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Don't be so clingy. Let him call you. If he doesn't then he isn't that into you.
2006-09-19 14:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋