Why do i have the need to always be with him? i am always sad and irratible when he is not around.I want to think i am in love. but i think its to early.we have only been dating for 7 weeks.I still don't know if he likes me in the same way. I know he cares,but i really don't know how to ask him how he really feels.Maybe i am just being stupid,what do u think? I still have not told him how i feel.I don't even know if i should. I love the way he makes me laugh and the way i feel when he touches me. I believe i could ruin this if i'm not careful.
2006-09-19 07:19:58 · 7 answers · asked by confused shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no specific timeframe for you to fall in love. Just be careful you're not confusing love with infatuation and/or loneliness... it can be confusing at times.
Perhaps you can just casually talk to him to get his feelings for what he's looking for long-term, as well as his general feelings, without getting too serious. Is he shy, or more upfront about things?
Go with his reactions to determine how fast you should go.
2006-09-19 07:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in LUST, not in LOVE. To love someone, you must know the person, and you cannot do that in seven weeks. I would not suggest questioning him about his feelings at this point or telling him that you love him, it is to soon. You probably want to be with him all the time because this is a new relationship and you enjoy your time together so much. Just be careful not to scare this guy off, don't over do the emotions and don't suffocate him. Just because you are seeing him, don't forget about your friends and your family, and his need to spend time with his friends and family. Take your time and you could have a wonderful relationship.
2006-09-19 07:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that feeling you have with someone where you have just recently met and you feel as if you have always known then? Or the what did I do before you came along? Well it sounds as if you have experienced just that. I think that some people just "click" and are able to communicate and enjoy one another on a very basic level. Do you love him? Maybe. But right now I would say that you love how you feel when you are with him and that, my dear, my lead to loving him as a person.
2006-09-19 07:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by ncmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my fiance after 2 weeks, and we're still together. He said I love you first though and it was only a couple weeks into the realationship. There isn't a "time" to fall in love. If you do not want him to get scared away tell him you like to spend time with him. My fiance said, "I Love....spending time with you" and I laughed, then he said "no really I love you" so...you dont have to come out and say it at first, sidetrack and see his reaction.
2006-09-19 07:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bobi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been happily married for 13 years ....we are still going strong..we only knew eachother for 8 weeks...before we said I Do! i am not sure if it was dumb luck..or meant to be ..but we are still here and we have 3 beautiful children...
Good Luck..don't analize just be happy!
2006-09-19 07:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Vanilla Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS EARLY, TO KNOW IF YOUR REALLY IN LOVE IT MUST LAST ATLEAST 2 MONTHS.....90 YRS PROBABLY...BUT GURL ITS TO EARLY
2006-09-19 07:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, not again.It hurts so good, i don't understand.Infatuation!
2006-09-19 07:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋