Girls, I travel alot on business, and because I'm constantly between cities it's hard for me to consider a relationship. With that in mind- It seems like a lot of girls don't want to admit to having one night stands in person, but since no one knows who you really are here, spill. Do you have one nighters and flings often and what's the best way to convince girls to go for it.
2006-09-19 07:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by joe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I said it wrong, not convince them, just an incentive to do it while they have the chance, like I'm leaving town tomorrow this will be our only chance to be together.
2006-09-19 08:55:07 · update #1
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You pick a city that you're going to about a week or two before you're going there... you search for girls in that area that you'd like to shtoop. You talk to them a little bit beforehand.
After a conversation or two, you tell them that you're going to be in their city on business for a few days, and since you don't know anybody there, it'd be really cool if maybe you could take them to dinner.
A girl, faced with an attractive guy and the safety of the anominity that comes with knowing that he's leaving in a couple of days and can't ever tell her friends/family/others about it... will give it up quick.
2006-09-19 07:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a lot of one-nighters in college. I was depressed and lonely, and I kept searching for that one guy that would understand me.. I would get drunk and disillusioned and hope that THIS guy would see the real me. Anyway, they weren't fun. I always felt used and dirty the next day. I am very sensitive though, and I have nothing against casual sex, I have had a couple of one-nighters that were a lot of fun...and allowed me to get to know some interesting men.
2006-09-19 14:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before i was married i had one night stands. they were fun and there are a lots of girls who do have them, you can't convince them if they don't want to. maybe your saying the wrong things. just don't forget about safe sex
2006-09-19 14:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she needs convincing, she's not going to do it. Girls know what they want and what they are doing. She'll put up the flag, trust me.
2006-09-19 14:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a one night stand. But if the opportunity presented itself I prolly would.
2006-09-19 14:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can convince them, It's something they have to want to do.
2006-09-19 14:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
chat to girls on net the places you visit and when u r persoanlly there go for them.
2006-09-19 14:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe stop being such a scum bag and stop trying to "convince" girls to have one night stands with you? If they want you they'll let you know - and if they don't well maybe you should stop being such a sleaze.
2006-09-19 14:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
their is really NO way to convince gurls to go 4 it...if their gonna do it....their gonna do it....u no what im sayin..i guess all im really tryin' to say is....im always willin' 2 try sumthin' excitin'....
2006-09-19 14:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I've never had one. It's too desperate - I have too much respect for myself to lower to that level.
2006-09-19 14:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋