My ex and I are thinking about getting back together, but i'm having doubts... The reason we broke up in the first place was because i felt like he didn't trust me.. Now he's saying that we are growing up and the time apart has helped him realize how much he loves me... but i think that he's dating another girl... I don't have solid proof but i don't want to enter a relationship with him and i'm feeling like i can't trust him... What should I do
2006-09-19 07:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi Foxxy...May I ask something? Why aren t u able to trust him?
What did he do? On my side, the priority of the normal relationship is faith, assurance, understanding. Love is not forever...maybe for a few months..Then leaves u only trust. So, it is your choice to fall in it again, but, consider what is the most important thing for u...some talks about love or your inside feelings? U know, ( I think :) ) women have another sense...6th sense;) so, try to use it ;)
2006-09-19 07:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that you can trust him then don't get back with him. You will be questioning everything he does and says so your better off just to stay broke up and both of you move on(if he hasn't already). If you do decide to get back with him then make sure that he trusts you or it'll never work and your going to have to start trusting him also. You both will need to work on it together if you two really want to get back with each other and make it work this time. Good luck.
2006-09-19 14:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and Simple! Tell him that you dont want to get back with him. If you dont trust him, That should be reason enough not to get back with him. And whatever it was that caused you to breakup the first place is still on his mine and it wouldnt take much for him to remember it and then, he:s gone again. Say no, and move on.
2006-09-19 14:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it as much time as it takes you to honestly trust him and the situation at hand...I was in your shoes and didn't take that time, now we have a baby together, he cheated on me twice, and we have een separated for good since she was thre months...now the jerk has another girl pregnant and is trying to jump back in with me.....good luck.
2006-09-19 14:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Memigen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you read your own question after you wrote it? It's almost funny.
You two don't trust each other. What happened to the growing up part?
2006-09-19 14:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go backwards? If there is no trust between the two of you it isn't worth the trouble. Find somebody new whom you can trust.
2006-09-19 14:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to ppl he knows to find out if he has another girl... or give love another chance u dont wanna be askin urself "wat if" for da rest of ur life do u? love is bout happiness, hurt, hate, just about any feeling u can feel. so take a chance better have loved n lost dan not to have loved at all
2006-09-19 14:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by mperez637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not jump into this with closed eyes. If you think he is dating another gal then you should look elsewhere until you know for sure he is available
2006-09-19 14:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he is dating another girl and he is still interested in you,leads me to believe there is something fishy going on and my advice to you would be to send him on his way and find someone else who would be more trusting to you.
2006-09-19 14:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back out with him becus it wil just result in the same thing if you dont trust him.
2006-09-19 14:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by .Baby.Boy.On.The.Way. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋