I've been seeing this man for a while now. He's had some serious surgeories on his heart. He's funny, sweet and charming. And while things have gone quite well, he's suddenly pulling away. I know it can't be because i'm smothering or mothering him. He has the right to do as he chooses and I try to understand. His words say: no committment, no picket fences, no promises...his eyes and body language say something entirely different. He still has a hangup over someone else, and I can't stop that I know. But I am in love with the guy. I'm also very lost and hurt. I don't know what to do. Should I move on or be more understanding and give it more time, or should I simply give up on any hopes and dreams I've had? I used to believe in love forever, now I don't. How does one deal with someone who has time for everyone else and me only when he chooses to? Is this fair? I hope someone can offer some kind of help. thanx.
2006-09-17
19:55:52
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