Theres this guy at the gym, whos really cute. I am leaving town in a week, but i really want to...get his attention. We look at each other a lot, but most of the time im the first one to look away as it gets so intimidating- how do i get more besides just gazing at each other without looking like an idiot? thanks!
2006-09-17 20:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by michelle9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it stupid that im leaving in a week and will he be like what the hell..or is it okay?>
2006-09-17 20:19:51 · update #1
It sounds like you are not seeking random conversation.
But, I will answer your question, as it was asked.
To randomly get people to talk to you, talk to random people, wave to random people, respond in a conversational manner to any random people who talk to you.
2006-09-17 20:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jim T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have a peek at the 'goods', trust me, he will want more. If you can get close enough, 'accidentally' brush your butt on his hand but dont apologise. Just loog at him & show him a sexy gesture like a naughty smile. But never, never give him more. Once he takes the bait, just keep him guessing but dont shut him out either.. Thats the way the game goes hun!
2006-09-17 20:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to make friends, first one must be friendly.
Trust me when I tell you that he is probably more intimidated by you, so you already have the upper hand.
Just walk up and say "Hi, my name is soandso. I always see you here and I thought I'd introduce myself."
2006-09-17 20:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him. If he doesn't talk to you or show interest in you, then he will never be yours. You really can't make anyone come up and talk to you first. You just gotta be bold sometimes.
2006-09-17 20:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on-purposely-by-mistake bump into him
then apologize and ask him sonething like "So how long have u been coming here"
then just let the convo flow from there
works like a charm
2006-09-17 20:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by gyrlundone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over and just talk to him. believe me most guys are not going to turn down female attention. Just the next time you make eye contact go over and introduce yourself. Or ask him a question, like idk what a good way to strengthen abs...etc or ask him to help you with the weights idk make some excuse to talk to him whats the worst that could happen??
2006-09-17 20:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by rr8603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh hello it's called goin first if nothin happens you'll be a loser and leave him behind it's not like he'll remeber you 20 years from now so it wouldnt matter if he might think your wacko
2006-09-17 20:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by i dunno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just go upto him and say hi... most people at the gym aren't there to pull, but are concentrating on what they are doing...
so, walk upto him, say "hi, my name is *********, how do you fancy going and having sex???"... that should get his attention...
2006-09-17 20:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not randomly pick a guy. Please go ahead and tell him that you like him. He will respond for sure if he is interested.
2006-09-17 20:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say hey wat's up? and start a convo! :D good luck.
2006-09-17 20:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋