Singles & Dating - 10 September 2006

I kept them under my bed and my bf was upset when he found out about them. My ex was my high school sweetheart. we had been together for 3 years. we had shared many tears and joy. He was the first one I fell in love with. we broke up because of distance. so many years have passed and of course I had moved on long ago. I’m serious into every relationship I’ve had with my bfs. now, I love my current bf so much and I’m sure he's my future husband.
those stuffs from my ex are just sweet memories. I don't wanna throw them away cos i know keeping them doesn't affect me and my relationship at all. I don't think throwing all the stuffs from an ex can tell whether you've got over ur past. my ex is now happily married. however, my bf said I should've thrown them away or perhaps buried them and they can still remain a sweet memory in my heart.

2006-09-10 16:52:03 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-09-10 16:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this chic for about 13 years and we went out for about 5 or 6 year.to make a long story short she really messed me up bad. so we broke up. And i'm wanting to start dating againn, But just can't bend myself to ask eany one out. someone please help?

2006-09-10 16:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met this wonderful girl online. We have been talking for about 5 months now. I really like her and it seems that she likes me too. There is just an issue of distance between us and the fact that i'm leaving for the military. I mean, i really like this girl, she is into about 88% of the stuff that i'm into. Shes' quite perfect for me. Is this odd? Should i try to persue this relationship? Or is it doomed from that start since it is an internet relationship?

2006-09-10 16:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by John C 1

Cuz, yeah, I'm really havin issues with that one. There seems to be NO quality guys at GVSU. And if there are, they're scarce...

2006-09-10 16:48:32 · 10 answers · asked by S L 3

I am asking someone out to homecoming sometime this month and I'm guessing she is going to say no. If she does I'm sure she'll be like "just as friends"... so should I go with her as friends or just not even go to the dance... it might be such a downer that I won't even want to go... guys, what should I do if she says "just as friends"?

2006-09-10 16:48:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

he lives alomst 3 hours away..we use to date about 6 years ago. but truth be told i am scared to jump into a relationship.. i already have 2 kids and he says that it dont bother him..he is caring,sweet,funny..just everything that i want..he says that distance dont bother him that he would drive 6 hours if he had to. I am just at that crossroad where i dont know which one to take. Do i go left where it might be me and my kids for the rest of my life or do i go right where there is someone who really wants to make a relationship with me? And is not scared that i already have 2 kids. I am scared to jump into this..I just dont let men in and out of my life..I am so confused and dont know what to do?

2006-09-10 16:48:02 · 16 answers · asked by katie7_6_2000 1

A woman walked in on me in the mens room. She saw my penis and said it was to small. Is 5 3/4 inches small?

I am highly discouraged and feel really bad.

2006-09-10 16:47:57 · 14 answers · asked by yankee 2

Being single these days is really hard I don't like going to the bar because I don't really drink and don't want someone who finds drinking a important part of their life and i work different hours and most of my friends are married so where do you go to meet people and men in this situation. Thanks for your help

2006-09-10 16:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl through a lady I worked with over the summer (her daughter). The mother set us up even tho she had and still has a boyfriend. She lives about 2 hrs away from me and her mother. When she and her boyfriend came out to visit I met her, she snuck off with me, and we hooked up. She came out to visit again 2 wks later and for a week we hung out, ended up f'ing, and I think connecting. The mother (who is a lil sick in the head, also has a thing for me) started telling me how much the daughter likes me and how I won her over. Now im up at school, still about two hours from her, and shes still with the kid. I know she likes me and I want her to leave the guy. I'm 20, shes 17, her bf is 16. The thing is, I think she's dependant on him as her home life is not great and he has a stable and entertaining house. Also he throws money at her because hes a tool. She tells me she wants to dump him but when she tries he cries and she feels bad. What do i do? is she too immature?

2006-09-10 16:45:59 · 14 answers · asked by xitsmike 1

Ok, so I think that every person in this life meets someone who they want to get old with... I don't know if I believe in fate or not, but I know I found the person that I want to be with forever, and I don't want to ruin it. We have been together for 7 months and I really love this girl more than anything, I do.
I need help though... I know that it's hard and that I'm going to have to face lots of problems ahead and stuff, and I'm ready, but this is THE girl I want, the only thing I want in life is to be with her, so if you are a person that has had lots of experience or maybe your with someone that you have been with, or you've been married for 2093847 years and you have ANY advice about anything, please tell me because I would like to be prepared. I am only seventeen, I know, but I've dated a LOT of girls, and this is the one, and I don't wanna screw it up... so if you have any advice for me it would be GREATLY appreciated... lol remember im a real person out there and ill listen..

2006-09-10 16:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need a romantic and charming pick up line plz help

2006-09-10 16:42:27 · 26 answers · asked by Mrmann 2

Ok, so I think that every person in this life meets someone who they want to get old with... I don't know if I believe in fate or not, but I know I found the person that I want to be with forever, and I don't want to ruin it. We have been together for 7 months and I really love this girl more than anything, I do.
I need help though... I know that it's hard and that I'm going to have to face lots of problems ahead and stuff, and I'm ready, but this is THE girl I want, the only thing I want in life is to be with her, so if you are a person that has had lots of experience or maybe your with someone that you have been with, or you've been married for 2093847 years and you have ANY advice about anything, please tell me because I would like to be prepared. I am only seventeen, I know, but I've dated a LOT of girls, and this is the one, and I don't wanna screw it up... so if you have any advice for me it would be GREATLY appreciated... lol remember im a real person out there and ill listen..

2006-09-10 16:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my gf is normaly a shy girl like really shy she doesnt talk about sex, she holds back alot and i dont pressure her. So today she tells me she has something to show me so i go over there we hang out for a bit then she goes and takes a shower. So after 20 minutes she comes back into the room and asks me to cover my eyes and when i open them shes wearing a nighty. So im shocked cuz we havent done anything the fact that shes so shy. So yeah after i stop drooling she starts getting pretty loose with me and she got into a teasing mode and it got me going but yeah the phone rang and it was her mom so yeah killed the mood. So what does this mean? Why is she doing this now? What should I do?

2006-09-10 16:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

2006-09-10 16:40:33 · 4 answers · asked by dr3am_away16 d 1

Alright, I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now. she is the most amazing person ever. The first year went by so quickly and we had so much fun together. We had so much in common and we would talk for hous upon hours. Lately I have been critiquing everything about her, I have been getting annoyed with little things and I feel like it is coming to a hault. Deep down in my heart i love her and would do anything for her. Sometimes when I look at her I just smile becuz she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen and then at other times i am not as excited about it. What is going on...I don't ever like thinking about the relationship coming to an end, we have experienced way to much together and I don't want to lose that bond. What do i need to do to make things better for myself without harmning our relationship?

2006-09-10 16:37:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.

She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.
What is it that's going on......exactly? Is there more to it than can be assumed already? I had already asked her out once for coffee to see her reaction and she said when she could, she'd make time for me

2006-09-10 16:36:35 · 9 answers · asked by axelf57 1

Hi,

My partner and I are 19 and 17 respectively. When she was with her previoud BF she has sex 5 times and each time it hurt her alot and she never enjoyed it.

6 months we had been together and tried 3 times and sex hurt tremendously. We were going to see a doctor but she wanted to try a few more times which we did and we were able to have sex after more practice it started hurting less.

Unfortunately she cannot come to orgasm it no longer really hurts her but she cannot reach orgasm. We have achieved it 3 times but none since during sex. I am able to get her off other ways but not during sex.

Can anyone help us we don't think that it is my size or how long I partake in intercourse she enjoys it but it does not get her to orgasm..

Thankyou

2006-09-10 16:32:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he wants to know what was happening

2006-09-10 16:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-10 16:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Nat 3

well i broke up with a gurl and i didnt relize how much i loved her until i did it and i just need a good poem to send to her to tewll her how lost i am without her so please help me out!!!

2006-09-10 16:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by twiztidjuggalo123456789 1

do share with me when ure seriously involved with one.. someone may say that this is stupid but only people in this scenario will understand the pain and love..

2006-09-10 16:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Tina J 1

it happened a year ago but i still have a hard time trusting him

2006-09-10 16:26:55 · 30 answers · asked by sixteen20012002 2

..mine was last year when i went to the guys apt and he answered the door completly naked! i sware! and i looked stunned and he said as seriously as can be,"hey there, i just got out of the shower." this guy was so gross! this isn't the kind of stuff i want to see on a first date!!

2006-09-10 16:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i sense that we both wanted to be more than just friends in this relationship? i'm not talking about sex if that's what you're thinking of.

2006-09-10 16:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy in my neighborhood who likes me, ans everytime I see him , i smile! i dont make myself smile i just automatically do! does that mean anything?

2006-09-10 16:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4

I've never smelled them before, but I sometimes wonder if women truly do "give them off," like some female animals do when they're in estrus, or "heat"--that is, they're ready to accept a male for mating.
Do women have ways of sending "the message," other than flirting?

2006-09-10 16:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are signs that a guy likes you and is interested and not just friendly?!

2006-09-10 16:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What did you do (go out to eat, watch a movie, play games)??? How did it go? Do you plan on going out with this person again?

2006-09-10 16:16:38 · 11 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5

Here's the deal. I met this guy and we were friends for a few weeks, hanging out talking and going out to the bar to play pool on the weekends. Then we started sleeping together, for the last month now. The last few days have felt weird. I call him once maybe twice a week and he's always busy. He really is a great guy. Single dad with two kids. Two jobs. So he really is busy. I don't know if he's trying to push away from me or if it's in my head and I'm the one pushing. I've been hurt but so has he. I also don't want him to think that he has obligations to me for anything. At the same time I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

2006-09-10 16:15:53 · 8 answers · asked by bird_e80 4