I met this girl through a lady I worked with over the summer (her daughter). The mother set us up even tho she had and still has a boyfriend. She lives about 2 hrs away from me and her mother. When she and her boyfriend came out to visit I met her, she snuck off with me, and we hooked up. She came out to visit again 2 wks later and for a week we hung out, ended up f'ing, and I think connecting. The mother (who is a lil sick in the head, also has a thing for me) started telling me how much the daughter likes me and how I won her over. Now im up at school, still about two hours from her, and shes still with the kid. I know she likes me and I want her to leave the guy. I'm 20, shes 17, her bf is 16. The thing is, I think she's dependant on him as her home life is not great and he has a stable and entertaining house. Also he throws money at her because hes a tool. She tells me she wants to dump him but when she tries he cries and she feels bad. What do i do? is she too immature?
2006-09-10 16:45:59 · 14 answers · asked by xitsmike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So if I'm correct in reading. She's using this boy for his house and she cheats on him with you. you want her to leave the guy she's using and go out with you.
What will happen is, she will probably end up using you or cheating on you with somebody who has something else she wants or needs. She's not just immature, she's a user.
I'm sorry about what happened, good luck getting out of it.
2006-09-10 16:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is indeed immature
why are you stressing yourself over this girl who cannot decide
who fools a 16 year old boy whom she does not really fully love
forget her, what makes you think she is being true to you
she is just using drama to get you to pity her
guess what i believe you dont really love her so just forget her
she is a cheater what makes you think she will not cheat on you afterwards even if she breaks up with this 16 years old
be a man and stand up
dont be fooled by this drama
she has the heart to hook up with you then she cries because she want to dump the 16 years old guy but cannot (obviously for the money)
man! you deserve a better girl
forget her
2006-09-10 23:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is immature. You're still too young to complicate your life with things like that. Go out there. Party! Meet as many girls as you can. Someone who doesn't have baggage. There's plenty of nice girls out there who are sitting by the window at home, staring at the night sky wishing on the brightest star that there would be a man who would notice them and pay attention to them. I hope you find a better girl and that you'll be happy.
2006-09-10 23:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. You are not much better because you willingly walked into the middle of a Venus flytrap, so you got what you deserved. She isn't going to leave her boyfriend, so don't believe the tears. If she did, she would have done so already. Cut your losses, walk away and look before you leap....
2006-09-10 23:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay well thats staitory rape good job on that one. but here is the deal your at college right. there are a ton of girls your age at college so yeah forget the teenager and move up in the world or at least get a girl thats closer to you
2006-09-10 23:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away. she sounds like she's too young to be involved in any relationship. you can't be her friend too, too much has happened between you guys, and it will complicate your life if you entertain her. same goes for the mother.
don't worry. you'll meet better ladies in school. (and they're less psychotic)
2006-09-10 23:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by lawyermike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well coming from a girl, the only answer i can give you is, she is cheating on her bf to be with you, maybe it gives her a thrill. But what if someday she does the same thing to you, just to be with another guy who gives her more emotional security than you
2006-09-10 23:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give her an ultimatum all you do is drag the inevitable out, it's best to just kick her to the curb right now!
2006-09-10 23:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be a bit old for her. Try finding someone closer to your own age.
2006-09-10 23:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find someone LEGAL to mess around with.......Maybe mom is just trying to find a way to get some money out of you, ever think of that???? C'mon.......Wake up and give up on this CHILD.............
2006-09-10 23:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋