Other - Family & Relationships - 25 November 2007

I have this friend and guys are always questioning her as to why she keeps waiting.She says she keeps scaring them away and she is attractive too.I need some advice for her.

2007-11-25 11:07:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys- for real

I mean, what benefits are there in dating a woman with a child or children?

It affects the intimacy..any spontaneous activity is gone...no matter how great a guy you are you will never be #1 to your woman.

It affects your wallet (like it or not sooner or later the ex will quite paying support), and you are robbed of having the milestone of sharing the firstborn baby with her, if you want kids of your own.

The ex will always be part of the picture...if he is not present the kid will hold it against you! And the woman has had another man's seed growing in her womb.

Why bother?

2007-11-25 10:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by baron d 2

are they rude? do they not care? or am i just being self-centered?

and when i refer to nobody, i'm referring to my parents my 'best friend', etc... it makes me feel bad when they don't ask! i feel like i don't matter. my parents don't always answer when i call, and it makes me feel like i'm a pain in the butt... but i only call them once a day. you'd think as my parents they could care enough to answer. my friend is another can of worms. aparently since i don't have kids i'm not 'worthy' enough of being her best friend anymore. she dismisses all of my suggestions to problems when she asks for advice, etc.... i'm just feeling like the world is pushing me away. what do i do? i try to not let it get me down, but i cant help it when i'm feeling alone and annoying.

2007-11-25 10:40:58 · 5 answers · asked by Natural Mom 6

I am interested in starting a dialogue with this question

Do people realize that their past relationships do matter ?

everybody wants to find their "perfect mate" and good luck to all, you deserve it

my question is, is that it seems us americans like to hook up with an excessive amount of sexual partners...build our personal numbers up high, have children out of wedlock, basically make ourselves very undesirable as a "perfect mate " . After we "ruin" our lives, we want to find a "nice" significant other to pick up the pieces and try to fix our lives.

I have had alot of replies from women saying that pasts do not matter. This is not true. Most of us feel that women who sleep with alot of men will always sleep with alot of men. This is a small world, and like it or not...everyone knows what everyone does.

2007-11-25 10:23:47 · 2 answers · asked by baron d 2

first of all i am not a wimp. im just down because i have just lost my grandma and i dont have support from anybody. i feel i look terrible. do you think i look terrible? anyway thats not even important

http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v148/25/27/697726545/n697726545_281443_6164.jpg
people on here have said some really horrible things to me. why do you want to vent your hatred onto me when i did you no wrong? i love playing music (guitar and vocals) and i need to be able to do that but this is just bringing me down. i was recently rejected by a girl so that has also contributed to my depression. i tried praying to jesus. please i wish anyone out there can just show they care. i need your support

2007-11-25 10:22:52 · 47 answers · asked by dave 1

I don't know them. You DO!!!!! What do they like to do?

2007-11-25 10:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

I am 32, and it seems every woman I meet has either slept with alot of guys, has children, still has feelings for an ex, substance abuse problems, or weight/health issues.

Do I have a chance in hell of meeting a nice girl to settle down and raise our own children together with?

2007-11-25 09:49:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know how many times I've logged on and answered questions from parents who don't have the money for diapers or christmas gifts or medicine for their kids and want to know how they can get this stuff for free..

Yet the very next question they ask (Often within minutes of the one saying they're broke) they go and ask about something they saw on HBO or how a friend stood them up for a concert they had tickets for or how can they solve a problem with their new expensive camera..

I've been poor before- I was a teenage mother- The first year of my daughter's life, I was lucky if I had a dollar in my pocket to buy a soda at work with. But I didn't have cable. I didn't have an expensive digital camera. I didn't have a computer or internet access. I didn't go to concerts or out partying with friends.

Why do these people think they're owed free stuff when they obviously don't manage the money they've got?

2007-11-25 09:35:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do dreams have meanings?..?
*for the past week, I've dreamdt about this guy I was hurt by and who I loved for 3-4 years. I got over him last year. He is my acquaintance's brother. She and I went form being friends to just acquaintances..as it got sticky after she suspected I was not over him. I had a dream last night that I was at his house and his mom was talking to me and after I asked if he had a girl friend, she said "not now, jen, he can't be committed, you're the one, he will marry you, but nows not the time for things to work like you want, give it time." It was no a dream I controled, I seriously thought it was real-life. I have been subconsiously thinking about him, as Xmas is coming around, and I might bump into him. I've moved on, but sometimes I want to go back and be vulnerable, but I know I can't do that, it is n't right. What do you think?..*I don't love him anymore, I've stopped. We never went out,it was just a a far away crush.

2007-11-25 09:09:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can I live on my own making 13.50 an hour at 40 hours a week?
The target city is San Fransico.

2007-11-25 08:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by asu_mikey 2

Maybe i'll get more response asking the question this way..... what should've i said to this lady?


was getting my nails done a while back at a salon that has Vietnamese people working there. My 5 year old was with me and was "being a 5 year old" Just getting bored. So she 's doing my nails and then stops looks at my son cause he was fiddling with something and says


" If you don't listen to your momma, I'm going to cut your tongue out and feed it to you!".


.. with a mean voice. Then she goes on to tell me how her neices and nephews are scared of her because she is so strict to them.

I guess i am a pushover because i just didnt say anything to her but inside i was in shock and actually felt bad that my kid got on her nerves so bad she felt she had to yell at him. What is wrong with me?! I probably should've got up and said i wasnt paying for it and drug my kid outta there and never went back.......

what do u think?

2007-11-25 07:31:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie 3

talk to people with out getting very nervous especially in fount of guys....how can i practice talking in frount of people.??????..... how can i make myself feel more comfortable in frount of people??

2007-11-25 06:57:54 · 1 answers · asked by sabrina b 2

My bf wants to touch my breast, but i don't know if it is alright. I really love him but im still too young for these things?

2007-11-25 06:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

At least 5 people in this world love you so much they would die for you

At least 15 people in this world love u in some way

The only reason someone would hate u is cuz they want to be u

everynight someone thinks about u before they go to sleep
You mean the world to someone

if not for you, someone may not be living

I wasnt sure.. my aunt found it on the internet and I HOPE its true...

2007-11-25 03:07:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

doesnt wanna talk about it? and it has something to do with his parents maybe? and he doesnt want anyone to know?

but then someone else found out but he begged the guy who found out not to tell me? or anyone else?

i wanna know and be there for him but i cant do a lot if i dont even know whats wrong...

and the thing is, im not even going out with the guy...but im pretty sure he likes me and everything... then idk something happened this weekend and he was like, really depressed or something and was kinda not responding and all...and he was just like sorry, my life is really ****** up rt now, but i dont wanna talk about it

and i just wanna know what it can be? so i can ask and maybe guess and talk about it but right now i have no clue...=P

im pretty sure it has nothing to do with me...but idk

2007-11-25 00:49:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous