My bf wants to touch my breast, but i don't know if it is alright. I really love him but im still too young for these things?
2007-11-25 06:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope. Sorry...once you go there you can't go back. 13 is too young.
Sorry for the Mom answer but it's a slippery slope. Take care of yourself.
2007-11-25 06:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by wpifer98 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that it's alright, then most likely it's not. I know that when I was 16 even I felt that I shouldn't be doing things until I was mature enough for them. If it's really on your mind that much, I would say no, and explain to him why you feel that way. If he starts giving you attitude about it, stand your ground and end it if that's all he wants.
DON'T think you're too young to date. Don't let people tell you that you're too young, because really, what IS young nowadays? I've known old timers who were dating when they were 13, so I don't get why some people are being hypocritical about it. My parents were fine with the fact of myself seeing boys in middle school when I was 14, just as long as it was good and wholesome time spent with them. Don't let people brainwash you with their morals if you don't think you're comfortable with them!
If you have questions about relationship problems, you should go to your parents. If they know you have a boyfriend, then you should go to them. I know that might sound scary, but if they know about you and him, it would probably be easier to go to them instead of asking on here. Hope it helps!
2007-11-25 06:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♫BlondeRoCKeR♥♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CANNOT DO IT IN FRONT OF YOUR MOTHER THEN YOU DONT NEED TO DO IT! Just think about it this way-- if you dont feel comfortable with letting your boyfriend touch your breasts with your mother sitting next to you guys-- then that means it is something you shouldnt be doing.-- especially at 13-- guuurrrlll you need to chill-- do you know how many guys will want to touch your breasts before youre ready?? All this guy is going to do is tell his friends that you let him touch them and they are going to try to touch them too! You need to hold yourself to a higher standard that the other girls out there-- I'm sure there are other girls who are letting guys feel all over them-- so you should strive to be the one who can say-- No guy has ever touched me-- that way when someone really comes along who is worth all of the chances you are taking now-- you will not have any of the bad memories of the losers who touched you before!!
2007-11-25 06:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by paulalinettegarrison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are too young for a b/f. At 13 you need to enjoy the freedom and luxury of being a preteen. do not rush into anything either, it is not okay for him to touch any parts of your body.
We can give you advise but you will make your own decision. keep yourself pure and clean, you will have more self respect and receive the respect you deserve...
Take care
2007-11-25 06:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by babegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your boyfriend is the same age as you....
Touching a boob isn't a big deal. Guys like boobs and if done properly, girls like to have them touched. Just enjoy yourself. If you want to know what it feels like, yeah, let him touch them.
Just use some common sense. Don't let things go so far that you risk getting pregnant, but have some fun.
2007-11-25 06:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good head you got there girl! the answer is yes..-you are way too young. i know how curious you are at your age and i've been there. if a guy REALLy likes you, he'll give you the RESPECT that you deserve and he'll wait until you say you're ready. if his feelings are genuine, he'll be after your company, your personality, your love and affection--not your breasts!
2007-11-25 06:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im only 13 but the guys i date r 2 shy 2 even admit that. its so shallow and if he brakes up w/ u then forget about him u know he only wants 1 thing
2007-11-25 06:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by 81882 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question to strangers on the internet, then no it's not allright. You have to be comfortable with it, and obviously you are not.
2007-11-25 06:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let a guy talk u into doing anything you're not ready for, u will regret it
2007-11-25 06:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY TO YOUNG, ITS AN INVASION OF PRIVACY, ITS A FORM OF SEXUAL HARRASMENT! BREAK up WITH HIM HE DOESNT WANT YOU HE WANTS YOUR BOOBS, HE IS A PERV, WAIT TILL YOUR OLDER, THATS SO WRONG!
2007-11-25 06:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by xostephxo39 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋