I had my baby daughter 6 weeks ago, and I have a 5 year old . I don't stop all day or a lot of the night right now - I do the cooking, cleaning, shopping, driving and looking after the kids.
It's how I expected it to be with 2 kids, and I'm not complaining about that... it's my partner....
He just seems to take for granted everything I do, because he is the one who goes out and earns money. I can't for at least another year because there is no room in the local Playschool.
Here are examples:
When I say what I've made for dinner he says "Oh, OK" or "It's edible, I suppose"
When I say "Why don't you rest for a bit?" he always manages to make me feel guilty by saying "No time for that, I have to mop/sweep" (or whatever else I haven't managed to find time to do)
We were great before we had the baby, I feel like it's because I'm not bringing any money in now...
Help, has anyone else got through anything similar - How?
It really hurts and makes me feel useless...
2007-07-04
06:09:19
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Krissyinthesun
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