I behave with everyone no bad, even very care of them, ready to hear they upload their heart ( sad or happy ), contribute ideas when they need, but i can't understand why almost of everybody are not like me. Sometimes, i think ' maybe i have no beautiful, not a charming girl... so they only remember me when they have no one other '. I also have some bestfriends,they never miss my birthday, but i still want to have many more friends. How can i do to becomes a lovely girl, be everybody like. I'm really sad and wonder everyday myself. Please help me ~^^~
2007-07-04 02:06:05 · 3 answers · asked by peter pan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your english is hard to understand. If it is your birthday, Happy Birthday or Happy Belated Birthday. Not everyone is going to like you. That is the way with everyone. If you worry about who doesn't like you or why they don't like you, then you will drive yourself crazy. Just be who you are. You sound like you are a kind and caring person and you have best friends. Some people only have ONE best friend. That is the way things happen. You are special to have more than one best friend. I bet if your family knew they forgot your birthday, they would be feeling very bad about it.
Some people may not like you. Blow it off. If you are kind to them, then you know in your heart that you are better than they are. Stick with the people you know care for you. Do things with your friends and best friends. Don't worry about those who do not like you. Everyone has people who don't like them. Sometimes they are jealous of you. Stay nice and treat others like you would want to be treated. Maybe someday, some of the ones who don't like you may see who you really are and become friends.
You know in your heart who you are. Remember, you cannot please everyone and not everyone is going to like you. You can be pleasant and professional to all. Don't worry about them. If you do, your self confidence will leave you. You are worth more than that. Best wishes to you.
2007-07-04 02:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have friends you need to be a good friend and be confident. No one wants to hang out with someone who thinks bad of themselves. So just be yourself and be happy. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and you will find friends that see your beauty as well
2007-07-04 02:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by robyn92874 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret is to choose to be happy. Be interested in everyone, ask them questions to get to know them better. Offer support to people who may need you and when you find someone who you think may be a possibilty for a good friendship, use initiative to invite them to do things with you that they might enjoy.
2007-07-04 02:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by sandy_uf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋