My girl and i have been having sex for about a month now, i am so comfortable with her. I love her alot, but there is one problem. I can never have an orgasm when we have sex!!!!!!!!! She spent the night at my house one time and we were just kind of kissing and messing around...still half asleep...anyways it didn't go anywhere we just went back to sleep. and in the morning i noticed that i had had an orgasm in my sleep!!!! i was pissed. I really want to have an orgasm during sex with her but i just don't know what the hell is wrong! i am comfortable with her so i don't think that is the problem. and it is not like i am not old enough to be doing this..i am 23!! PLEASE PLEASE HELPPPPP!!!!!!
2007-07-04 06:45:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try it when you are alert and really hott. Use foreplay and wait until you are feeling very amorous. You just need a little fun and lighten up, relax. Let her give you a massage or vice versa. When she is or does give you a ******** or hand job tell her to get on top when you feel like you're going to ***. it's fun and may help you. Try it and see. Otherwise I'd talk to a doctor or some professional. But don't worry.
2007-07-04 07:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by susie q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fine - don't worry about it. Obviously everything works, so it's simply an emotional thing. Enjoy the cuddling and playing, and let it come when it does. As long as she's happy, you've got nothing to worry about.
2007-07-04 13:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its anxiety. RELAX
2007-07-04 18:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because your not sexually satisfied with it, try new techniques
2007-07-04 13:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU might try maturbating...
2007-07-04 13:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Teri KOZY (Sanders) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋