September last year i found out my boyfriend had been seeing another girl for about 3months prior.He said it was just friendship & she wanted more but he said he didn't. I saw the texts she had sent which proved they were meeting up a lot.I believed him tho & tried to let it go.
Then in December i saw an email he had sent her back in July saying how he couldn't leave me yet but really liked her and had had a brilliant time with her.
He still said nothing happened & he was just having a laugh with her.I decided again to let it drop seen as i knew nothing was happening anymore.
Recently though i managed to speek to the girl & she told me they used to go out places together, been to each others houses, kissed, done "other things" together.
We've split up, he admitted it was true.Hes normally the sweetest guy & we still love each other lots, hes really sorry.Part of me wants to try again but theres no trust. it was last year it actualy happened but feels like yesterday! please HELP!!
2007-07-04 07:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by zara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to move on with your life instead of going in circles.
If he really cared and was really sorry he would never repeat the mistake. He is just sorry he got caught. And he lies about it to you instead of confessing and trying to save your relationship.
If there is no trust then there should be no relationship.
So honey, move on with your life, talk to him about why - have that closure for your sake and his.
You both need space to live and get clarity in your life.
2007-07-04 07:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that hits close to home as I have been in the same position. You have to decide if you want this man in your life and if you will ever be able to trust him again. People can give you advice but you are the only one who knows how you feel. I stayed with mine and we have been together for four years now and are planning on marriage
2007-07-04 14:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. How many lies to you have to catch him in and still believe him? You said you knew nothing was happening anymore. But, it was. Now you know he still loves you. How? He says he is really sorry. How do you know it's not a lie. From your question I assume you are fairly young. You will hopefully learn with age and experience. In other words,,,,,,,,, stay gone. Move ahead and find someone you can trust who is worthy of trust.
2007-07-04 14:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Carla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok - he loves you, that's fine.
But, the way he cheated you tells me that he is going to do it again. You see, he obviously didn't want to break up with you but at the same time he had that relation, for long time, trying to satisfy himself with everything he wants. He cheated you and the other girl too.
That is not sweet.
That is selfish and cruel.
2007-07-04 14:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by njanja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think it would be best if you probably went and gave another guy a chance. He had his chance with you and he only left you hurt. You don't think you deserve better than that? You should forgive him because he's only human but let him go.
2007-07-04 14:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by singmetosleep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is best, that way there will be no misunderstandings!
you need to be totally upfront with your (ex)boyfriend & say what's been on your mind. however if you no longer see him just chalk it up as experience & move on in your life.
2007-07-04 15:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way past the time for a new boy friend*........
2007-07-04 17:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋