Other - Family & Relationships - 4 March 2007

ok, this is the deal. i have a girlfriend. i love her with all of my heart, and i know she loves me. but i worry that someday i will lose her, i mean were only 16. teens are not really known for sticking together through life. (even though im not a "average" teen). i intend to stick with her, through life. but i just worry that sometime there will be just a bad day, and its over. should i be worryied like that?

2007-03-04 14:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

Always believed everyone was here (earth - not answers LOL) for some reason - why are you? What greater purpose to you serve?

2007-03-04 14:47:38 · 4 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

This is really long, sorry! I have a point!
I am 16 and I'm not one to take stuff from bullies. But the other day I was at a basketball game (state competion). I'm in the band that plays for it. I have a hard time "fitting in" with the people on the trip because none of them are my friends and they don't bother including people who aren't their friends. They are the only somewhat nice ones on the trip. I went to sit with them and the girl on the end (not as nice as the others) it was the only place to sit, the only people to sit with. This girl starts making a big deal about me sitting there and tells the guys on the end not to make room for me. She keeps saying "why are you sitting here" and "aren't you going to leave" "you're annoying" etc, etc. At first I put up with it because I know it will satisfy her if I leave and then that will be me putting up with her bullying. Then she just keeps griping so I leave. Bad mistake. What do I say to her/do next time or what should I have done?

2007-03-04 14:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

nothing happened, would you believe it???????? The ones that answered the first part of this question are encouraged to answer it.. Keep in mind that this person is your spouses x and now they are good friends and you and your spouse was having some issues, Would you believe that nothing happened.

2007-03-04 14:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6

First marriage was a disater. Womenizing, abusive, controlling husband. Produced one child age of 5. Currently working on getting married the second time to a man with similar qualities and either one is considering the feelings of the child involved. The child is acting out in school. The child is the most kindest mannerable little boy you could ever meet until now.

2007-03-04 14:14:40 · 3 answers · asked by God's daughter 1

im 20 years old. i just got out of a really long term relationship, not to sound like a spoiled ***** but my parents pretty much have given me anything i've asked for, they pay my bills, and i don't have a problem living here. i love my family, they are the only people who truly matter to me anymore, i love them very much. however i'm 20 and feel that i should take some responsibility in my life and move out and live on my own to see how well i could do it, it will only teach me better for my future. i want to have to work and worry about paying bills and not being able to run to my parents for everything. i also want my ex to see that i have changed in many ways and am not the way i used to be. aka..still love him and still want him back, trying to show him i'm a changed person. is this a mistake wanting to take responsibility for myself at 20..should i wait longer? all opinions matter to me, so please don't be rude or mean or make fun, i'm very serious about this. thank you

2007-03-04 13:47:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 1

i really need to know!

2007-03-04 13:41:19 · 46 answers · asked by mervelash 3

My wife had a baby feb 1st she stopped bleeding and i was wondering if it is time yet to have relations... seriously falling apart here!!!!:p

2007-03-04 13:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by rattlingyouallover 1

I lie when I'm happy, most of the time.

2007-03-04 13:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy who is incredibly sweet but not my type at all, and im really nice to him bc hes my friend... but he thinks were going out, and he told people that! a couple weeks ago he got me flowers for vday, and thats how i figured out he really liked me

i find it really flattering, but i dotn like him like that.. how do i let him down easy without breaking heart..word for word please, i have no idea what to say...

2007-03-04 13:29:01 · 8 answers · asked by mervelash 3

My 29 year old boyfriend insistes on spanking my 15 year old daughter as a last resort...is this inappropriate?

2007-03-04 13:23:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

thats how i feel right now has anyone else felt this way

2007-03-04 13:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ghost 2

2007-03-04 13:12:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

like miranda priestly from the devil wears prada or regina george from mean girls

2007-03-04 13:03:48 · 2 answers · asked by srtá.girly 1

im 17 and my girlfriend is 16

my girlfriend has this brother who beats her and she cant tell anyone or else he threatens to kill her and i cant tell anyone cuz she is afriad that her bro will do something about it...most likely kill her
but every day he hits her and everyday its getting worse
and more unbearable for her and me

yes ive called like the teen youth hotline and theyve said tell someone or persuade her to tell but she is too scared to do anything and i cant stand her getting hurt while im over here not able to do a thing i need to tell but if i do she said she wont trust me anymore but if i dont it will keep on going on until he goes overboard
her friend kinda sorta knows thats its going on and offered for her but she said her brother will find her and most likely do something bad
once she told me that "its not worth it all..i wish it would end" and she knows suicide is wrong but she is not hesitant to do it

this has been happening for too long
help

2007-03-04 13:03:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really don’t know what to do anymore. I am so torn inside from my boyfriend, a desperate aching feeling pulling me towards him but my head is pulling me away. I love him so much after all he is the guy I lost my virginity to. Yet, I feel as if I’m putting so much effort into the relationship and receiving none back. A relationship is supposed to be mutual, neither person is supposed to be controlling over the other. Yet I feel like our relationship is a hierarchy, with him as the dictator and me as the peasant. He’s always telling me what to do, don’t drink, don’t even talk to other guys, eat more you look anorexic (I end up eating when I’m not even hungry), don’t curse… I feel as if he is my father and not my companion. Last night, I had 2 beers and he saw me fall a little and took the beer in my hand away from me. I was completely fine; I’m just a somewhat clumsy person. I told him I was ok to drink I know my limit, besides I rarely drink, the last time was about 4 months ago. I took the drink back, and he said, “Fine go home, if you don’t want to listen to me then leave.” I was hurt I hate when he treats me like this. I walked across the room to my friends and didn’t talk to him (its not like he tried to talk to me either.) While I was mopping around at a ‘party’ which is quite an oxymoronic phrase, I talked to my boyfriend’s friend for a little. We talked about basic topics, such as college and music. Yet as you can imagine my boyfriend flipped. Over one conversation with a guy, my boyfriend kept giving me a dirty glance. When he got up I followed him. He told me to go back to his friend since we seemed so close. I told him to stop I had no feelings whatsoever with that guy it was just a friendly conversation (its not like he doesn’t talk to other girls.) He got mad and slammed the door in my face. A little bit latter he told me that maybe we should stop dating, then when we getting a ride home he goes, where’s my girlfriend? He confuses me so much!!!! It is sooooo frustrating, I feel like I’m going insane, but I can’t help it. As much as I know I should end it, I just can’t. I love him so much and thinking of breaking up with him makes me hysterically cry. I don’t know what to do. When I try to talk to him he says if you’re going to break up with me over something that stupid, then why are we in this relationship? Is it that fragile? Out of fear of breaking up I usually let the situation go. Yet it is a constantly occurring situation with him. Please give me some advice, I’m miserable, yet completely in love with him I just can’t help it….

2007-03-04 12:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she hurt me

2007-03-04 12:56:32 · 18 answers · asked by qwerty 3

I got married and she met someone and quickly got married. She had him take the ring back cuz it had to be a bigger diamond than mine. She tries to out do any vacations we take (after she finds out we are taking a vacation). We had our house remodeled she had to have hers done too. Hires same contractor and copies our plans. Copies what I have or has to out do what I have constantly. How can I get her to stop and find her own identity?

2007-03-04 12:47:39 · 11 answers · asked by pinktolips 1

o.k.,my room is a total sty.but i dont really know a good way to clean it.ok,my room is like super small and i have way too many clothes in my room which is most of my problem.my mom said that when i out grow my clothes she willl take them out of my room and put them in the room my sisters share because their room is bigger and those clothes will be theirs once they grow into them.but the thing is she never takes the clothes out so i have this huge pile of clothes in my room which is taking up space.way too much space.should i wait for my mom to take the clothes out of my room and put them in my sisters or should i just do this myself???
please help.

2007-03-04 12:43:48 · 16 answers · asked by evildukys93 1

so i need someone to talk to

2007-03-04 12:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by deishalicious123 1

2007-03-04 12:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Heatmizer 5

Please do not answer if you're someone who does not believe in regrets and mistakes.

2007-03-04 12:22:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i love this guy and he is 5 years older than me. i love him so much and i cant deel with that fact that he has a girl friend. tell me what to do. thanks so much

2007-03-04 12:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by lola * 1

I have a crazy Catholic roommate. She recites prayers for over an hour despite whether I am napping, studying, or with a friend in the room. It seems that she doesn't understand that her ways are intrusive. I want to confront her about it in an inoffensive manner. Help!??!

2007-03-04 12:10:18 · 8 answers · asked by mk 1

At least tell me one thing you know about france.

2007-03-04 12:06:52 · 3 answers · asked by camicat 2

2007-03-04 12:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by dudes222 1

my mom is rudy and her brouther is Jo-Jo.

2007-03-04 11:59:55 · 3 answers · asked by brown sugar mommy 1

It's been over 5 years and I still have dreams about my first love and it feels so real? Does anyone know why?

2007-03-04 11:59:01 · 22 answers · asked by Emma 2

2007-03-04 11:37:48 · 13 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5

Imagine there was a guy who in his life always had is arm bent in a perpendicular position. So then his arm eventually got stuck that way. (He wasnt born with his arm like that. In his early teens he kept on leavin his arm like that so he got used to it.) Ok, then he marries a woman who also has the exact same thing that he has! She piked up that habit too and her arm got stuck that way. Alright question, If they were to have a child, would the child be born with his arm like that? How bout if the parents were born like that?

2007-03-04 11:36:45 · 1 answers · asked by anonymous 1